I was just wondering what kind of ways are there to make HBs demonstrate value to you. Do you bring it up during the rapport building phase, or is it an entire step itself?

Plus are there any specific Value demonstrating routines that work well?

Check in the routines section, any routine build to have her qualify to you will apply. It doesn't have to be a routine though, even saying "I would only date a woman who can cook. You can cook, right?" or words to that effect would work.

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Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.

Ultimately, if you have the mindset that you are higher value than her, and are screening her, you will subcommunicate that she needs to qualify herself to be with you.

One of my favorite openers that sets this right off the bat is "Hey! Who are you?"

She'll instantly start qualifying herself.

Also, using breaking rapport tonality gets a girl to qualify herself and start offering value.

Think of how a police officer comes up and yells "License and registration!"

And how you respond

"Oh, sorry sir, I was just doing yada yada yada..."

You start qualifying yourself because he is coming from a place of higher value/ authority...

This can be done simply through the technique of breaking rapport tonality.

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