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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 10:54 pm 
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Around new years this hb9 i have been talking to agreed to be my girlfriend. when school starts back whenever i see her and say hello she always smiles and blushes. That was week one, i was too scared(idiot move)to kiss close her this week. Now it is week two and she is not returning my calls or emails nor has she even yet told anybody we are together. The other day i was trying to talk to her and she seemed pretty uninterested( which is strange considering most times she takes full intrest to what i am saying)I think i should try to kiss close to turn the whole situation around before it is too late but i dont know yet what should i do. she didnt even invite to a party that she needs a date for which i know because a friend of hers told me.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:22 am 
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Background Info: Have not yet kissed or f closed

Around new years this hb9 i have been talking to agreed to be my girlfriend. when school starts back whenever i see her and say hello she always smiles and blushes. That was week one, i was too scared(idiot move)to kiss close her this week. Now it is week two and she is not returning my calls or emails nor has she even yet told anybody we are together. The other day i was trying to talk to her and she seemed pretty uninterested( which is strange considering most times she takes full intrest to what i am saying)I think i should try to kiss close to turn the whole situation around before it is too late but i dont know yet what should i do. she didnt even invite to a party that she needs a date for which i know because a friend of hers told me.
Freeze her out to see if she comes around. It sounds like you lost ground. The fact she doesn't return calls, doesn't tell anyone you're her boyfriend, and no invite aren't good signs at all. Freeze her out AND DO NOT CONTACT HER AT ALL. If she comes around and stops contacting you then okay. IF it goes several days without contact MOVE ON.

Sorry but it's that simple at this point. There is something missing in your relationship and kino escalating at this point isn't going to do it. You need to go back and rebuild attraction and then comfort. You're on square 1. :D

GOOD LUCK

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 11:37 pm 
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The first mistake was when you first saw her, you should've made the initiative to show her that you do like her and that you do see her as a person you want to be with, not just see her a smile at each other. That's what the AFC does to some girl he doesn't know, why would you do that to her if she told you that you guys were together? I probaly don't have the right advice b/c I don't know the full story but I'm sure this whill anser some of your questions.
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