I've moved into a commune and my housemate is really hot. I'd love to make a move on her, but don't know how to do it in a way that would keep things steady with our shared household. I stay with two ladies.

i was in your situation last year lol. the best way is to acutally, dont seem bothered by it. Bring over other girls and just act normally. you guys need to adjust to each other first since you'll be living with them. Game them to early they would just be like "great another creep and he's living with us". Play it cool, be modest, meaning dont be that perv always trying to catch them naked or staring at them. After awhile either they will open to you and then you can game. this way you wont disrupt the order in the household and. on another note.. girls can be messy -_- and yes they walk around in there undies and topless. My old 3 roomates that went to UCLA 2 where upcoming models and the other was just a Hot Doctor in the making. Good luck bro.
BTW the girl in my avatar was one of the roommate i was talking about.

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hmm...and mmmm.... I'm about the lucky-ist and nervous guy I know. Thanx for the advise. Am looking forward to the underwear displays...

I agree with this post...but I want to emphasize on it:

First thing: be clean, they will be judging you at all times.

Second: You are are SERIOUS risk of getting LJBFed in this situation. Very very easily.

1) Bring over girls, let them see you with them without being obvious about it.

2) Don't put up with shit. They will at some point come to you for comfort because of this or that...don't be their shoulder to cry on.

hey man in the end its your call, but i would say dont take anything with this chick past benefriends or fuck buddies. if you were to actually date her, then break up with her.... it would suck. she would be bringing assholes over to the house all the time just to make you jealous and it would be REALLY awkward.

im not bein cruel, im bein realistic. hey, i could even be downright wrong.

do what you think is best, and good luck

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Oooh what fun. I've been playing it really cool, not making a move at all, and one evening after a party she jumped my bones!! I was quite willing to oblidge. Nothing's been said, and the incident was not discussed by anybody! I'm wondering how to escalate this into more frequent repeat performances (evil grin).