Hi

I've been reading on PUA forum and books that girls are somewhat more attractive to alfa male, compared to chodes...

Well I'm a chode Since spring 2008 I started looking into PUA stuff, reading books and stuff.. Made about 500 approachew since June.
Right now I'm dating a hot girl. Yesterday she told me she has fallen for me... But a few weeks ago things were not so great:

Second time she visited me, I kissed her for the first time. We kissed for a few minutes. Then she stopped. She said she don't want to escalate our relationship too fast. So in my head I thought I had been doing something wrong...

The next date didn't start well either. I had a feeling the girl was borred of being at my place. And arround 11pm she started to say she needs to go home. She said she need to be in bed early tonight as she was going to the gym early in the morning. (my brain was working overtime at this moment). Then she started to tell things she didn't like about me... I was crying inside my head, as when girls say this it is a hint that they don't like me. They want to move on and find a better guy.

So then I thought I had nothing to loose. I started hugging her. Which escalated and escalated. And too keep the story short she slept in my bed that night. She didn't care about the gym. And she told me that I was fantastic in bed (I gave her 3 orgasms) and she started to ask if she more often can come and sleep with me....

Now we are a couple. Tomorrow she is cooking for me (it's not the first time she cooks for me).

So my discovery is that maybe chodes have a chance too. And is it so that girls more easly fall for men who are fantastic in bed?

any thoughts?

By being a 'chode' I assume you mean jerk and not the layer of skin in between your anus and scrotum.

Well a lot of being alpha is cocky funny and a lot of cocky funny is being an asshole. Maybe you think you're too much of an asshole when you might be giving the perfect amount of assholeness desired.

Cheers

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Love, KATA124

I mean AFC (I thought chode was another word for AFC, sorry for my mistake).

Okay. I got you now.

Dude. Nowhere does it say that if you're an afc you won't get a girl. You just have a better chance if you're alpha.

And you're probably subconsciously doing something right to make her, specifically, see you as alpha as well.

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Love, KATA124