when should i stop talking to her over the shoulder, and turn around starting lokking her in her eyes?

If we're gonna talk MM, then you're supposed to do that when she does something to deserve it such as give you an IOI.

when they give u and IOI, like asking for ur name, or instantly asking u what u do, or complimenting u,, but dont absorb the compliment, bouncing it out and tell her that she`s hitting on you or tell her to buy u a drink already

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I think, to use the technique properly, you have to understand why you talk to the girl "over the shoulder."

Basically what you are trying to do is convey through your body language that you are "trying for rapport" with her.

In other words, you only open up to her i.e. face to face, once she has "won you over."

So you go in with closed off body language, which comes off as screening her, and then when she does something you like, you open up more to her.

It's inherit in the body language that you value YOURSELF higher than the girl. Which is the goal of a lot of different techniques.

Hard to explain over text, but a really dramatic technique when done properly, and includes more than just talking over your shoulder...

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I do that when I am locked into the set. You can turn your body towards the group when you ground your opener. I just dont turn towards my target too much. When I feel that she has got the point that Imnot too into her I include her with some eyecontact. Less than the others but I have taken over her group and am now allowing her back in.

Turn around, square your shoulders to them, and look them directly in the eyes. It works. It really does.

C.ompletely squaring your shoulders up to a person is incredibly off-putting and causes people to feel uncomfortable. The two most intimate/connected body positions that people assume are side-by-side facing the same direction and facing each other, but slightly offset, not directly squared up, which is actually a highly confrontational stance.

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