So I just recently broke up with this girl that was dragging me through the mud constantly. Every couple of weeks she would freak out and distance herself. We would then take a step back but she would come closer again and then the cycle would continue. Finally I had enough and told her it was over. I still really care about this chick but I just couldnt do that anymore and it was really getting to me.

Anyways, I have only talked to her via txt or chat a couple times since, and that was several weeks ago. She chats with me online yesterday and she acts surprised that Im not goin to the same party as her for NYE but I just say I am playin it by ear but dont commit to goin to party. She gets kinda pissy and gives me a little crap.

Is she just baiting me to get me to the party? Wont it be a big DLV to show up and wait for her to give me attention?