Hey guys,

Extremely new to PU and the forum. I'm from Sydney btw if any one else is and wants to chat/hook up/sarge I have pretty good conections in the SPAM drop me a PM.

Alright I met this HB8 club girl the other day playing poker, we got talking after I busted her out of the tournament. We went outside to share a cigarette, talking talking blah blah. She tells me she has a boyfriend who is also here she invites him over and he is a bit of a loser. He goes away after a while and she starts bitching about him. I get her to buy me a beer(lol, she borrows money from the BF to buy). Negging and saying how she owes me a beer for the good company. Anyway we probably spent about 1 hr together trading stories and what not. It's pretty late during the night and she says she has to go 4 work, w/e.

I see her the next week and she tells me she has broken up with her bf, and we get a bit flirty we were buying rounds and when it was my turn I kept pulling back on the beer when she was reaching for it. She leans over me and has a small sip of the beer almost spilling it cause she was over extended not drunk in anyway. Anyway Play this game for about 30 seconds I'm saying you not deserving yada yada and she leans in and kisses me on the cheek. Me being an AFC then gives in instantaneously. I feel I missed an opportunity here, we kept at it talking she starts telling me how relaxed and real I seem (which I think is good). I told her someone's line from this forum the 93% of women one and she loved it. I definately built up heaps of Kino over the night.

Here comes my problem Inner Game, I've started readind DD's stuff on overcoming shyness and w/e but i'm only 19 she 22, and I haven't hooked up with a girl in over 2 years. Had a few massive LJBF's with girls I liked. SHould I have tried to k-close after she kissed me? and what would I say??

Thanks guys any and all coments are appreciated.

Ryot,

Everything seems to be better in hind-sight doesn't it.... i mean, alotta advice given on these forums seems to be given in that sorta, frame of mind. For instance, i was thinking, if i were you when she kissed me on the cheek, I would say:

PUA: Oi you missed....

HB: sorry?

PUA: You're supposed to kiss me here *points at lips* with a smile of course...

If another opportunity arose, and the energy was right, that could lead on to something... however....

Mate, i think you should try getting a second date... the 7 hour rule i guess would apply here... say you met her for an hour, at the cas (or where ever you were playing the poker tourney) 3 hours at the club, just escalate the situation the next time you meet her. Make sure you keep your wits about you for the IOI's, and then phase shift.

Oh and the older woman thing, it's sweet as dude... she's no more than 3 years older than you, doesn't mean a thing. I'll let you in on something, i lost my virginity when i was 18, to a 27 year old probably wasn't the best shag of her life, but she got off on teaching me a few lessons, that still come in handy when it comes to pleasing women in the sack.... hehe...

Thx for the advice man,

She's not only older than anyone I've hooked up with but incredibly cool too. Sorry but we are in the newbie section how exactly do you phase shift??


Ryot