Hey guys,

This past year has seriously taken a toll on my confidence! And it's because I can't game in English anymore! I moved to Greece in 2000 from America because my parents wanted me to get in touch with my Greek culture and all of that shit. Yet I went to an American Highschool in Athens, so life didn't really change much. I ended up only dating Greek American chicks in HS and chatted them up only in English. Then I went to Uni in London, and gaming was even easier, in English again. Btw, London is a great city for picking up girls. The variety of girls, and their laid back attitudes on life really impressed me.

After I graduated last year, I moved back to Greece to fulfill my mandatory 12months Army duty that unfortunately all Greeks have to suffer through. And now I'm out, and I really need a girl. Problem is that my gaming sucks in Greek. I can speak fluently enough so that most people don't even realize that I've lived abroad. But I'm not gonna lie, just speaking Greek utilizes 25% of my brains CPU usage, my vocabulary sucks, i'm not half as witty, my humor is hit and miss, and in general it turns me into a total AFC.

I'm not really sure if the problem is actually with the language or more of an inner game confidence thing. I've never got any negative feedback about my Greek, and there's been at least a handfull of times when chicks would find out I've lived in America and the UK and instantly change their attitude and start giving IOI's. This gets me questioning if it's a real or a perceived problem. I think what I need to work on is my inner game so I can stop giving a shit about it in the first place. Is there anything else I can do to kind of get over this silly complex of mine?

Frame it so it's a good/sexy/romantic thing, what you can't fix you feature right? If you truly believe that your culture/accent/ imperfect language skills makes you more interesting and endearing, then by setting up a dominant frame women will start to believe it too.

Remember, most of game is body language and frame control. Of the small portion that is linguistic, most is tonality. Diction and syntax are not that big of a deal when it comes to seduction.

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