my first big question and fear

1. how do u avoid being creepy?
-sometimes i feel like the things i want to do to pick up a girl, a girl may take it as creepy, and i never want to be labeled as that, so this is difficult as hell for me

2. how do u game girls you've known for a looong time?
-i live in a small town and have gone thru high school with all of the girls i hang out with. how do i game them? they know me forever, and know them, and it always confuses the shit out of me on how to game them

3.what do u do after you know a girl will get with you??
-how do u treat them? i dont want to be mean and be like .. ok i just hooked up w/ u now c ya later. but i feel like thats what i need to do. i dunno its confusing shit to me

side note: none of my friends ever go out and meet new women, its just we all hang out with the same girls we have forever, and i dont know what to do because i already know them all, so if i come at them with game i would use on a new girl, i always think they just see thru it and i get down on myself. i dont know what to do

Answers....

1) Creepy is normal among young guys. Focus on yourself. Love yourself. Keep your hands to yourself. Find a passion that doesn't involve some "chick". Again, love yourself. Too many boys (especially in America) let females dominate them. Don't do it. They are the weaker sex. Let them worship you.

2) You don't "game" girls you have known for a long time. You are like a brother to them. Don't sleep with your sister! Life is about living and exploring. Start a new life. Be brave. You only live once. I am sure your life sucks now. Start a new one!

3) Don't understand this one. Quit sleeping with your "sisters". Geez, find new girls. Get away from your boring friends. Being independent is very sexy. Girls like a guy who is a loner. Guys who are alone learn and grow more than needy guys who need a support group. GROW...LEARN...LISTEN...EXPLORE...THRIVE!!!!!!!

The key is to LOVE YOURSELF. Develop yourself from within. Focus on who you are. People find that attractive in a male. Being needy is the last thing any girl wants in a male. Joining groups is not sexy. Being alone and standing as an individual is the sexiest thing you can be.