i want to ask her this girl i been seeing out for a while. but we have never been alone. we've both been with friends. how would you guys ask her to go out with you indirectly? or am i suppose to do it directly?

I'm really new, but are u sure that she is attracted to you? IOI's? If I was you I would make sure she's into me first.

yeah she is into me. lots of IOI. lots of text messages. i make short phone converstations.

from what advice I have been given, I suggest u isolate and ask her out, or since you are friends you go out with all of you to like a movie, then there you kino, then isolate makeout.

Since your friends you can ask to hang out at her house with you. Thats isolation right there.

You do not ask her out! You mention that you are gonna do something fun and in the end you tell her that she is welcome to come along if she wants to.

Once again, I'm going to give a disclaimer before giving advice, because I'm very new to this and it's probably best to not take anything I say too seriously, but I'm finding that by giving advice I'm thinking about different situations I could end up in and that can only help my own game, so it's win-win!

I've only ever seriously liked three chicks in my whole life (as in more than, "man, she's hot, I'd love to fuck that!"), and I only went out with one of them. In fact, the other two I never got more than a hug from and I was upset over for about a year each. The first two, which I failed with, I made it quite clear that I liked them and asked them out. Didn't work.

The third, I suggested to come clubbing with me one night (now I'd tell her to, rather than suggest). After the club closed I ended up back at her house, and we spent the night in her bed making out and I received my first hand job aswell as only the second (and third) time that I'd fingered someone. It wasn't until after that that I asked her out, to which she still said she wasn't sure (so now I still wouldn't try and make it official even after all that). In fact, she didn't say yes to my asking her out until I'd seen her another time which ended up being a four-day sex fest. That's right, AFTER THAT. So yeah, moral of the story, don't use words to tell her that you want to go out with her or even that you like her, let things happen naturally and comfortably and then talk about it when it's UNMISTAKABLE that something is going on.