Say for example you talk to this girl you like on MSN once and then you have a sudden urge to talk to her again.Would talking to her more then once make her feel annoyed, creeped out, or would that be making me more needy and desperate? im definitly clueless on this one

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I rarely do the whole online sarging thing but when I do I make a good impression and they usually talk to me first when I sign in the next day or so...

I wouldn't over-do it, try and avoid boring convo's:

You: Hey, u ok?
Her: yeah, not bad. U?

Etc., etc.,...

Boring. Boring Boring.

Say things that are unusual yet FUN.

I'm going to be brief here: Talk to her like you've known her for a long time. If you feel like talking to her, do it. But I recommend doing it in person rather than online because it isn't as personal.

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I talked to her today again on msn, this time it wasn't so good. I open up a conversation with the first line, her status said she was online but she wasn't answering me. A while later, her status says shes away and out and i still didn't get any answer from her. I've just been ignored, brushed off and completely forgotten.

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What exactly did you say?
If she was clearly online and saw your message and decided to ignore it, then she isn't interested. Sorry to say, but you gatta move on buddy.

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Well..... it started all with laptops. She got one for christmas, then i bought one today (using it now haha) then she was online so i opened up the chat window and i said "hows the laptop". Lame opener but i just didn't bother to think about it. I was waiting for a response for a while but didn't get it. I checked the chat window again and it said she was away and her nick said "out ". No matter how i opened the conversation i dont think it would matter. I haven't put much effort into trying to get this girl so no, i am not moving on because i still think theres hope. No more msn conversations

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ah shit Fatal.... one failed attempt is no reason to quit the whole msn thing. i mean, i personally dont do online sarging but a ton of people do. in fact, dont even consider this a failure. consider it a learning experience. dont let it bother you

good luck

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Just to shed some light. It could be very possible that she was never at the computer to begin with.


If you leave your computer, about 15-20 minutes if nothings been touched, it automatically puts you as "gone away" or whatever she might have it set up as.

so its not really over, there is still light.

Get out and circulate in person. Don't become the creepy guy hiding behind your monitor! Life is gorgeous! Go to a park. Go to a museum. Life is for LIVING!!!! The Internet is a beautiful thing, but don't become a slave to it. Don't hide behind it. You are better than that. Stick your face out there. True living is a PASSION!

Too many guys on here are just barely making it. I wish you would decide to either END IT OR LIVE IT! My God, you are all so f---- lucky. Yet, you act like life is torture. This is it. This isn't practice. This is LIFE. Love yourself and love life!

Even though being behind the computer makes me feel very safe lol. I haven't actually went out and talked to her in person, only in school which i do. Lately, i've been trying to gather some material i might need to help me. If i see her anywhere then that would be a plus. What i really want to do is to get a # close or a kiss close on her but i can't see either one of them being done, I need to find plans.

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