Okay, so I always end up getting more serious with these women than I first intended. I think a lot of it is just the nature of intimacy. There is a difference b/w just having sex with a woman once and never seeing her again, and having a casual sexual relationship.

Of course I know that it really depends on what both people want. And I also understand that people are not always that forthcoming with that time of information at the beginning of anything.

I have a friend that says that you should always tell her up front that 'I am not looking for anything serious'. This seems to work, or at least it opens the door for an exit when things do (and they always seem to) get more serious. The only caveat to this is that by saying this you become more of a challenge and she will sometimes want to move it to something more even faster than if you had just kept your mouth shut.

Anyways, I am goin on a date with a girl I recently had sex with. We txt fairly often and she is a cool chick. When we first hooked up I said I didnt want anything serious and she said she didnt want a boyfriend. I try to keep distance but I just dont want to fall into the same trap. Any suggestions or methods you guys found to do this?

Thanks

Keep contact down to max once a week. avoid lengthy txt messages/phone conversations - keep that down to once a week too!