Hi im Joe, went on my first sarge on saturday at a friends 21st, went well 3 number closes and a kiss close. However have since tried to get a date with one of the number close whom i didnt kiss. Had it all set for monday, but had to cancel, so left it until tuesday night to re-arrange only now she say she might be able to come, when before she couldn't wait to see me.... Any thoughts!

Maybe she was really excited and then you pissed her off by cancelling. I mean I get pissed off at girls if they show heaps of interest and then I invite them out and they say they can't make it. I won't even invite them out again unless they show interest in me again.

Let me give you an example: There's this chick who I invited out just the other weekend and she said she was too tired to go out. I didn't even reply. She ended up msging me back days later because she saw me walking down the street. She said she had a few days off work. I didn't reply to that either. She had her chance to go out with me, she blew it. Maybe i'll invite her out sometime again. Maybe i'm a bit harsh but I'm not going to be no AFC. It's a privallege for girls to hang with me, if they stuff it up they may not get another chance!!!

Just play it cool and don't rush things. She probably still wants to meet up with you.

girls invented the whole playing hard to get/showing slight disinterest thing. just act like every girl wants u. and she does. maybe u need to show a little more interest because two people playing hard to get does not work

ok, so i told the girl that "75% od the time someone says maybe they mean yes, so ill see you monday around 2ish, have a great xmas" what do you guys reckon?? is this being an AFC??