right this is how it starts ,theres this girl i relly like we spent all summer toghter(as a couple) then she went back to university (where her boyfreind is!)...... we slowley became distant ...i slowly forgot her had fun etc etc.....
anyways she works with me aswell shes back for xmas ..... and we went to a work xmas party.i picked her up from her place and it all hit me again..
i tryed to ignore it for the majority of the night...all the guys where flirting with her,it got to me so i started flirting with other girls but it didnt stop me from looking over at her..i did notice her looking back.... anyways it got the worse of me, i said to her can i talk to you so i took her out of the place of where the party was ...and i told her i still relly liked her but she wudnt let me kiss her she was like no this is wrong etc when i huged her it was sorter a one way hug ..then her freind came along and took her away......the night went on i droped her home and we had a little chat she said we have to just be freinds and i was like na i cant be iam sorry she goes why is it all or nothing for you etc etc
anyways just as shes about to leave the car i go to her ,ill get you one day and shes goes yeh you probebly will..... and that was 2days ago i havent called or texted her shes messing with my head then today she text me saying this song that we use to lisern to i replied with saying those days are long gone...she replied with alright grumpy aplogies for talking.......... anyways sorry about that eassy i dunno what to do i want to get her back how do i do it !....

it sounds like you are her bit on the side at home or just a close mate and you are reading the signs wrong. Either way I think you are sabotaging it for yourself by over thinking things and putting her on a pedestal.

The best advice I can give you for not over thinking things is think of how much you talk and how much of that could possibly be flirting, that should help you find your answer. If that doesn't work make her work for you not the other way round, anytime she says something that could be her flirting ignore it or think of her more as a friend than anything else.

also yes I noticed the genius of telling someone they over think something then to think about the situation

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i see what your saying but last summer we had a pysical relationship kissing all that ..... this new hot girl has started working there iam goning to give her attention and see how the other one reacts

cool cool keep us up to date with how its going

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yeh i will keep you updated

i usally would pee half way up the wall to stop any unwanted splash back!... but somtimes i would go wiled and pee all over the show

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good balance of practicality and fun there lol you ever rock the stan between 3 urinals and shoot at each one in turn, its hilarious until someone walks in then the best recovery is just to carry on then give them a knowing "yes, I am that cool" nod. They will do it straight after you leave lol

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haha i like it i will give it a shot

Just act like nothing was ever said. Tell her you understand that yopu are just friends, and let it be at that... Then focus all your attention on the other girl. You might even ask your friend for advice on how to attract this other girl, after a week or two. (Don't ask her right away...She'll see through it)
It'll either win her back for you, or win the other girl, if you play it right. You're a winner either way.

i see what your saying but this other girl also has a b/f and the one iam trying to get with said to me " i would love it if you moved on then i would think hes a iddiot and i would beable to have my life sorted"

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There's plenty of single girls out there you're only making it harder for yourself by going for with boyfriends.

The current girl has already "friended" you she's only keeping contact with you to make sure your still there as her guy friend
and you keep answering her promptly as expected.

you see how she was able to mess with your head when she didn't contact you for 2 days, you were probably thinking about her constantly during that time.
Then when she finally does say something you jumped immediately to respond.
Ignore her for a while till she says something worth your time

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quick update ...rite so being flirting with this new hot bird at work.... the girl i liked saw she started hanging aorund me more and being helpfull we went on lunch toghter and there were 2 other guys in lunch area but she was flirting with me so much.... rite near the end after we had a good laught i go to her right can u go now iam trying to eat and your making me sick... she stayed which is a good sign ..... but i think it went pretty well?

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