So, there's this HB 9 I've known for quite a while. A couple of years ago we already had this fling, but nothing serious. The thing is she's in a three year relationship now, but she's getting bored with her boyfriend. We've been 'just good friends' since our fling, but now it's starting to get different again. I'm starting to get really attracted to her again and she's giving me signals that she's getting attracted to me too (at least that's what I think). She says things like "My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me anymore, I just want long, steaming sex" and other stuff about why she's getting bored with her boyfriend. The thing is I don't know how to react to what she's telling me. I don't wanna be the good friend who listens to her and give her advice, but you can't totally not react to what she's saying right? How should I react to the things she's telling me?

Its a complicated situation with a girl you care about w having a bf. If shes giving you IOI's I would say go for it. But dont jsut let her have full control over the situation. Right now, she seems to be in the situation thats hard, you have no commitments, she does. If you and her truly want something and truly want to start dating and hanging out, I would say to try and play the game and b w her. If shes jsut using you for pleasure because shes still w her bf who doesnt please her, then I would say to stay at the friend level... Theres no reason to put urslef in a situation where you can get put into the mix of problems that relationship might be having..