| I don't know what the best thing to say here is, but I do know the best thing to do in a situation like this.
Well first off, is this a date or just a conversation? If this is a date setting, I end the date right then or there (or close enough to it). Unless it's a family emergency or something drastic, she should not be taking social calls at this time.
If this is just small talk, if she keeps it very short, I can usually tolerate it. But if she launches into some conversation with the person on the other end, I'm outta there. I'll just tell her I'll see her soon, and that's it.
Regardless, if she's answering calls and talking to whoever is on the other end, it's a sign of disinterest on her end. Think about it...if she was interested in you, wouldn't she put them on hold?
I dealt with a girl like this back in high school, except that she tried talking to other people who were passing instead. Back then, I didn't know what was going on. Nowadays, I would have said "have a good one" and walked away.
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