Ok well the story is that I have a friend that I have known for a long time and I want her to think of me differently in a more sexual way. She definitely trusts me since we have known each other for 6 years. I am back from break for Christmas and we hung out last tuesday and watched movies. I got some IOIs and some kino, but I attributed this to us just being friends. Anyway we are supposed to hang out tomorrow and I've texted her about it probably twice, but she does not seem to be interested. Well needless to say I want to just make other plans and just say I totally forgot or even just say you didn't seem interested so I'm chillin with other people. Idk basically I want to show that I'm not her bitch and will not text her 1,000 times asking what she wants to do. I get the impression from this forum that I should definitely do something to show that I am more important than her.

Anyway please help.
P.S. I have SEVERE one-itis with this girl so that's probably why I'm thinking too much about it.

I had something similar to this and used the holidays as a natural break to loose contact with her, then when I got back just kept communication to a minimum and sure enough after about a month she was trying to run jealousy plots and was craving attention. At this point the ball was well and truly in my court, I call her when I want to meet up and she comes.

As for your situation I think because you have been friends for a while you won't need to go as severe as she will notice the change and so a couple of well placed flakes on your behalf would probably do the trick. Essentially she just needs to know that you are calling the shots and she has to chase you.

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You need to take it easy. Do not scare her away by suddenly declare your eternal love to her! It is normal among friends that they dont seem so interested in meeting, you are just friends. She does not know that you feel this way. She does not know that she is supposed to feel different either.
It is more than high risks to try anything with a friend you have had for a long time. I would play the jealousy plotline on this one. I would not care if you meet this time but try to meet her in a club or bar with other people around, game another girl, force IOIs and see how that works for you!