I met this girl through a friend of mine this weekend. We had a diner at my friend house. Later night we went out to a club. The tension between us grow and we end up kissing.

I took her number after I drop them of at my friend apartment. The day after I tried to call her but she didn't answer, then I send her 2 cocky sms. I still didn't hear from her.

This morning I notice that she forgot her scarf in my car. Now I'm a little bit confuse... I don't know if she is testing me or what!?. She didn't react to my phone call and the sms (It could be, she is playing hard to get or she was busy), 2nd she left her scarf in my car, and she didn't tell me that (it is very cold here, I'm sure she noticed that)! I don't know if she expecting me to keep calling her.

I decided to wait few days and to try again. I'm gonna see her again next weekend at a friend party.

Please let me know what do you think.

Plan a date with her after you get her attention and wear the scarf out on the date like yours yours


I would actually just drop it off at her place if it isn't too much of a hassle after not trying call/text her for 1-2 days and see how she reacts. If she isnt home leave it at the Front door with a little not stating you dropped it off and that she might need it.

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

I like the first option. I will try to make a date with her, and wear the scarf out on the date

It will be funny, and really try to act like you are matching with it. When she asks for it back and you got a piece of clothing(hat?) that can be worn by a woman also say like "hey! dont touch my scarf, stuff left behind and not claimed is considered mines , Do you honestly think I baught this hat?" ofcourse in playful manner.

Thats what I would do atleast haha

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

Excellent. I was also thinking to use it for making the date. I will call her and if she answer, I will tell her that I have her scarf as a hostage, and if she want it back she will have to full fill my requirements

I wouldn't take it like that, that is kind of like buying a girl a drink for validation or acceptance. Setup a date and tell her once you both compromise or just tell her a date, "I got something really cool I been wanting to show you, If you behave I might let you take it home with you". See how that works for you.

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

Good point, I see what you mean.

Anyway, do you think it was bad that I called her the day after and instead I was supposed to wait few days?