Ok guys need help.

New girl on the scene. Every guy likes her but she is single and I'd love to be hers!

We know each other fairly well. She is quiet. We speak very friendly on msn. We don't speak as much when we meet as a group with others - I'm shy and so is shy but we do exchange a little laughter.

Basically I've told her best mate I like her, and I have also told the girl I like, that I have my eye on someone!!! i.e. her!! lol

She's been really intrueged as to who I like, asking her best mate who I told not to say a thing!! She keeps asking me questions etc..

I told her, I will allow you 1 question per day up till xmas eve, and by xmas eve I would have told you who it is.

She acts like she doesn't know who it is, although I have left subtle hints in our msn convos, such as commenting on her nice hair in her display pic etc..

She does talk to me a lot on msn - she did text me today after meeting with her with a group to ask if I was going to be 'msning' later, and also asked something random which probably gave her the excuse to text me - and hence provide the opportunity for her to ask if i was going to be on msn.

Also ever since I've commented on her looks in her dp, she has been saying the same for me, rather she says 'ooooo new DP!! llooks coool! : )'
Not quite as complimentary lol but still..

Erm anywayy.... how should I go abouut telling her??!?! Because if she thinks im liking some other girl, she may think any flirting i do with her would just be friendly flirting - hence i feel i want to tell her properly how i feel.

Is the way I described above a good way? I want to hear other suggestions, cheers!

Hey man let me tell you something that I experienced when I was younger. You see I never really had a go at anything that I liked because I was too scared. It really sucks because there were so many opportunities that I missed. So many girls liked me but I never did anything about it.

Everything has changed now, I can talk to any girl I want and it's because I have stopped caring. I've stopped caring about what people think about me. I live my life the way I want to, not the way someone else thinks it should be. That way I can be myself and talk to anyone anywhere.

It's up to the girl if she chooses you, just make sure you give her the oppurtunity to do so. Chances are she is probably into you like you wouldn't believe but because she is shy, she has a really hard time getting it across to you in words.

So don't be in a hurry to tell her how you feel about her. Just hang out with her heaps and have fun together. That way you don't even need to say you like her in words. The fact that you are both hanging out together means that you like each other!

Ok antic was right you cant worry about being rejected or youll never become a PUA. Everyone starts somewhere and here you are. I guarantee it she knows its her that you like and girls love it when guys admit that they like them. It puts the ball in their hands and girls eat that up and fuck with your head. If you just straight up tell her you like her 1 of 2 things will happen. 1. she will admit that she likes you back and then you guys can start dating (very unlikely from my experiences) or 2. she will pull the LJBF's deal on ya. You need to use some tactics in your approach you know break the kino test and all that shit. Neg her some but be funny while you do it. When you guys meet in your group you need to be more involved with everyone so you can eventually isolate her. When you do this you need to use some routine whatever one you choose such as the ring routine and #-close and possibly k-close if you worked the game right. Then get out on a date with her. Good luck and pop outta your bubble mane..youll feel much better about yourself!!! let me know what happens

hey guys, i appreciate the advice!

I'm not overly worried about getting reject, after all I did promise to tell her on xmas eve who I liked lol... I just can't help thinking that she does like me a very small bit at the very least.

What is the LJBF tactic? Is that term described somewhere on here? I'll have a look..

I'll try some kino and neg her a little more - I will be back! seeing her tommorow with the usual group, cheers!

OK found out what LJBF means.....not good

Ah shit I just know ive fucked this up

I told her....well she guessed that it was her I liked after numerous subtle hints etc...

She said she thought she might be interested in me yesterday especially after we met as a group with others. That was the day she texted me to ask me if i were gona be on msn etc.. n that

Umm...but she isn't sure.

It was so weird, she told me she was going to feel like a loner shopping by herself tommorow. I said, 'aww haha well why dont you ask someone to go with?' and she said 'ahh i cud but everyone is busy and my brother wont be botheredlol' so I THOUGHT this meant an opening for me!!! I replied and said id be more than happy to assist her etc... and her reply was this exactly:

'lol yer it did probs seem like that.. and well it would be coool if you came.. but i dunno :\ lol anyways........ '

WFT

I thought she meant that she wanted me to come with!! Obv not!! ;///

How do I act now? I feel like not replying with such enthusiasm etc...

OK she tells me another guy also likes her now - now its starting to make sense.

She says there is nothing going on between them - all it is is that this guy (also my best mate) likes her!!

What do I do now? We were up at 4am talking about it last night - I was upset and didn't know how to react. She is still giving signs she likes me e.g. 'im going now, but feel free to text me cos i probably wont go to sleep yet xox'

erm she says she was thinking that she that she might be interested in me the other day etc and that she has 'a decision to make'

Please guys - im a quiet guy - how do i deal with this competition (he is funny and loud) ... how do i win her without coming across like a dick?

Help!!