ok, so i met this girl around 3 weeks ago and she went on holiday a week after we met. she's only coming back end of january.

now, i've built a lot of attraction and she's been texting me non stop... and made it pretty damn obvious that she wants to jump me.

problem is that i'll only see her in over a month, and i'm worried that the attraction i built might die out by then.

what do you guys make of the situation?
i dont even know whether i'm in a bad situation or whether i'm just over-thinking it all...

should i just keep texting etc or what?
my mate suggested that i should call her and say something along the lines of "i like where things are going but i'd prefer to get to know you in person... so lets put things on hold and pick up where we left off when you get back"
i'm not too fond of that idea.

I would cut off most of the interaction you have and start to pick it up a couple days before she arrives. A buddy of mines had similiar situation and they texted eachother constantly daily and it lasted about 1-2 weeks and then they pretty much lost interest in eachother.

I can't Advice on this first hand so hopefully someone with similiar situation can help you out better.

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we only speak like every 3rd day (she always starts the texting) but then it goes on for like... 10-15 exchanges before i end it again.

i have a feeling that cutting off contact will work but i have no idea how to go about it without seeming like i'm blowing her off... and she's a top quality girl so i'd prefer to not piss her off and be dead to her.

anyone else have ideas?

Id say you're doin right Id just pace myself if you know she is comming home at a certain date you should take your time dont give her to much of you at once and make sure to leave her wanting more. maybe take an extra couple minutes before you answer her texts. a couple days before you expect her back really get her hooked and build anticipation so when you finally see each other again it seems like she has been waiting forever and she is so excited