i went out with this girl for dinner and then some ice cream and after she leaves she sends a msg saying thanks so much for seeing me and cathing up, i asked will i see u again before i go and she said she will let me know what shes doing before i leave. this was on thursday. on friday we msgd bak and forth but no mention of meeting up again. sat went by no msgs or anything. its now sunday and im leaving tonight so should i msg or say anything?

with the dinner there was flirting and she was very comfortable with me. when we came to go i said dont i get a hug n kiss goodnight, but i checkened out and jus kissed her on the cheek, lame i know

so what now ?

dude i think it depends on how soon your coming back and how much this girl means to you. i personally think any advice is limited with the given info on what this girl means to you.

for what its worth, i would msg her to go out before you leave. and kiss her at the end. this will give her plenty to think about while you are gone.....

good luck

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Hmm don't ask her this... instead just tell her you want to see her again before you go, or better still invite her out again and see what she says. If she likes you no doubt she will say yes! If you get no response or an I am busy response than she's not worth your time. Move along, there's always something better out there!

I agree, its really important with things like this not to ask but just be straight. It's hard to give good advice with out knowing which level you two are at. I would say some thing like, "hey so I'm all packed for my trip and nothing, to do, you free to hang out?" if you have already reached C1 I may be more aggressive and say "lets go and do ______ on this day, I miss your face already lol"

I would say go for it, if she turns you down before the trip, the time away from you probably will not increase her interest. Also I wouldn't have said "I don't get a kiss, if it didn't naturally happen you jumped too far ahead and didn't properly keno escalate, even if the escalation doesn't reach that point you can still show you "want" to kiss her which has the same effect. Just hold her hand as you walk her up to the door, look her in the eyes after saying by, then stair at her lips for about 2 seconds, I would then leave but hold onto her hand just a couple seconds too long also like you don't want to stop touching it" This basically conveys the same thing, and may just make her wish she would have kissed you.

i had to leave for the airport already and kinda sent a msg before the replies came, which i shouldnt have considering the repies i have gottne and how much better they would have been.
i understand the dont ask but tell with the will i see you again as opposed to i wanna see u again.

so the msg i sent was " lokks like i wont get to see u again before i leave but it was good seeing u, hope santa gets u that cruiser u wanted. take care"

the cruiser is this custom bicycle she told me about at dinner. thought if i mention it it would show that i actually paid attention.

so did i fuk it up? i wont be seeing her for probably a month while on holidays.

thanks
j

Hey that's fine, just don't think about stuff too much. Maybe if your doing some cool stuff on your trip let her know about it, send her a msg or something see what response you get. Maybe even bring her something back from your trip to show her you were thinking of her!

Listen to me buddy.
First.
You're a man and you should decide when you will invite girl for a date next time. Never let girl to control your relationships. You should call and invite her when you want it.
Second
Kiss and hug her when you feel she is ready and that she want to be kissed and hugged. But never ask girl about the permission. Asking girl about permission is very lame.
Third
Now you call her, invite for a date and follow my advices.