Hello. I'm pick up amateur from Ukraine. We have our own ways of pickup development, but I'm curious how things are going in Europe and America.

Last week I met one pretty girl. I was standing on the bus stop waiting for the bus. Next to me was standing some cute girl. I was tired after studies and didn't have mood for meeting new people. Though I noticed that she was looking sideways at me, you know, with special girly look. I felt a little embarrassed and stepped aside from her. So both of us were standing at some distance from each other. The bus didn't come. Suddendly she turned back and asked me: "What time is it?" I answered. I liked her voice and decided to continue conversation. She was waiting for a bus even longer than me and was feeling desperate to get home. So, we decided to go to another bus stop together. Our conversation was going smoothly, she was definitely interested in me. I could feel it with my guts. Before she left I took her cell phone number. For three days I was busy with exams in my college and then invited her on a date. The weather that day was very chilly, so at first I took her to the coffee shop. Our conversation was going smoothly, everything was splendid. We drunk two cups of tea. After going out of the coffee shop came the time for kisses, but the weather was so cold that I didn't want to take her to the public park though she wanted to. I decided to take her home right away. Certainly I didn't tell her that. I told her that we were going to "my favourite place and that she would love it". When I took her to my apartment she was a little bit surprised. Actually that is not my apartment where I live with parents, but that is "my place" where I bring girls and celebrate some holidays with friends. Sometimes those things are combined :) We sat on the coach and practically immedeately I huged and kissed her. She didn't resist. So, there we were lying together on the sofa and making out, but we didn't have sex, because I didn't really wanted. My hands and lips were having access practically to all parts of her body except pussy. Everything seemed to be going excellent. But from time to time she was asking me to take her out of the house for a walk. I told her that it was to chilly outside and that was the only reason why I brought her to my place. I told her that I will in no reason force her to have sex with me or to do something she didn't want. Then she seemed to relax, and we were enjoying the process of being together. No sex. In the late evening I brought her to the bus stop gave her goodbye kiss and went home. When I got home I send her a message with a good night wish. She didn't reply me. In the morning I got message kind of: "Good morning! I think we should not continue our further relations". Strange, really strange. But I think that I know the reason. When I broght her to apartment I should have had sex with her by being extremely decisive or not to start any sexy moves at all.
If I have had sex on the first date that would lead to "one night stand" and further quick break up. If I would be more romantic that would lead to long time relationship. Here sex would be suitable on the third or fourth date.
That is just my musing as a masculine creature :)
I want to continue relationships with her, because she is really nice girl. I liked her look, style and character.
I've got her SMS on Wednesday morning and didn't reply it.
What do you think I can do about that? What can I tell her?

Unless you can become "her man" quick there is not much you can do about it. But relax, there are plenty of nice wonderful girls out there for awesome people such as yourself.

It's hard to know for ABSOLUTELY sure, but yeah, she probably wanted you to get around to sex a little faster is what I was thinking.

Sometimes chicks make it impossible too, that's the funny thing. They expect you to fuck them and then they reject all your moves, you're like "umm.... OK" So I think you were good to try and make her comfortable.

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Well, buddy that's not an answer "go and find another one". It's not a problem for me to find, but I look for comcrete solution of this case.
"ummm ... OK" is a great thing. I know what you're talking about.
You say it and continue your sexy moves or become even more aggressive.
Yeah, you're right if I brought her home and made her horny I should have fucked her. That is a rule. If didn't want sex I shouldn't have broght her to my place.
Seems that all girls around the world are the same.
Whether it Ukraine, UK, USA or ... Nigeria Doesn't matter.