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| Trevino | PostPosted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 3:02 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed May 28, 2008 10:37 pm Posts: 215 | | Okay guys, not sure if anyone else has posted about this but I found a great way to eliminate your AA.
I have recently had the opportunity to hand out flyers for a show on the weekends. The area it is in has a ton of walking traffic with their choice of many different bars and clubs. Getting them to come to the show that I am working for can be tough.
Before I started doing it I kinda thought of it as a shit job. However, when I started to do it I realized that it was teaching me a valuable lesson. The number of people that just walk by you without even talking to you are even acknowledging you is way more than the latter. But thats the point, I can throw the same line at all of them, some stop, some dont.
I realized that this is just like it is in the game. You have to get over the fear that you will be rejected. Because in reality, what does it matter if that happens?
A good friend of mine who has one of the best games I have ever seen told me some good advice. While not directly applicable to what I said about the flyers, its still worth repeating.
I was struggling to get over a girl that kinda screwed me over and I was being a total AFC about the whole thing. And I dont know about you guys but that can be a shot to the ego and its hard to pick yourself back up and get back out there. I was talking to him about it b/c we are friends and I value his opinion. I was asking him about what to do now and if I should go out with this girl or that girl b/c I know it may not work out. He said that I was thinking about it all wrong. Dont think about the future! You cant worry about what might happen. Dont let your approach anxiety keep you from taking the chance. Even if it all blows up in your face, its better than not having gone for it in the first place.
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