I hear ya. In my journey, I've kind of lost the distinction between "pickup mode" and "normal." They've just blurred together. I feel "normal" most of the time, and I can pick up in that state. I have to crank the energy up for clubs, though.
If you want to work on this, a good way to do it would be to go back to basics and just start saying hi to everyone you see during the day, Newbie Mission style. The idea is to make day game normal for you.
In fact, go ahead and get up on this:
http://www.makeherchaseyou.com/
^It's a signup for a free ten-day email-based bootcamp from none other than Herbal. I did it a while ago. Shit's tight.