Heya guys,

I got this mental block where im afraid of expressing what i feel verbally. I love kissing, hugging and cuddling. In my previous 3 year relationship, i loved my girlfriend like she was my own family but i never once uttered the words "i love you", "miss you", sweetheart" "darling" etc. She was terribly in love with me and i didn't express myself. It saddens me when i think of this.

So my question is do you think it fine to say these words when you like a girl? Im afraid that if you say it, you won't become mysterious anymore and that you're a lot more predictable.

Thats definitly not true. Infact use this kinda stuff in like A3. Ya know push pull, punishment reward stuff kinda thing. As for being in a relationship with a girl i dont think theres anything wrong with using that kind of stuff, i mean shouldnt you feel relaxed enough to say whatever you want?
Its funny cause I think that i have the opposite problem, sometimes i have to hold back things like that cause i fall in love with another pretty face every ten minutes. I know pretty AFC but definitly dont do that anymore. Virtue is a mean between two extremes right?