Hey guys,

There's this new girl that i like. I've been busting her balls so much and she's been responding positively, although she hasn't said "i like you" in a I-like-you-lets-become-a-couple kinda way. She's called me cocky, an arrogant twat (in a non-serious way), she said i've got good humor, called me sweetie, and dearest. We both sleep at really odd hours and she told me once "thanks for having a fucked sleeping pattern. Love you even more for it". She's even asked me to be her partner for a charity trip to africa next year!

The thing is im not sure if those names she calls me are just standard names girls use freely AND whether i should wait for more IOI's? Imo, i think she's a catch, she's not the prettiest, but she's fucking intelligent, witty, adventerous and she loves life. How should i convey my interest to her?

She hasnt said 'i love you' but shes told you indirect stuff like youre funny (the humour thing) a sweetie (not the AFC type) and finally, she 'loves you' even more for it.

Dude these are clear IOIs, remember if youre keeping the C&F stuff with her its gonna be pretty hard for her to say 'i like you' straight out but look at these indirect subtleties shes giving you.

Oh, and the trip together? GOLDEN.

Just go for it, this ones in the bag. Whatever youve been doing to convey interest has already worked so proceed to seduce/sleep and date (if thats what you want).