my (since a week) ex girlfriend (or so) told me to fck off last week becouse y wouldn't ask her on a serious relationship. ironically y did that same day but she told me it was just too late (being incredibly cold btw).

anyways, it has always existed an incredible level of atraccion between us and it just urges me to get her back.
pls help.

PD: sry for my lame english

its a shit test I think

what is that supposed to mean?

It means that she does it (probably without knowing it) in order to check if you are a good mate or not. If you running back to her, crying, begging her to take you back... you fail.

It's a shit test. It's a test, and it's so lame.

However, she might have a point - i don't know. Does she want a SERIOUS relationship.. ? Are you just in it for sex? You gotta really listen to your girl, dude. Why do you think she's doing this?

My instinct would like you to:
1. Get the real reason to why she's mad at you.
2. Promice that this will never happend again or redirect the blame
3. Make it up to her
4. Continue to game her

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thx for the advice, just thought i should get into a bit more of detail in order to get more specific answers.

ok, this girls is the sister of a friend which lives out of town. we've known each other for about 4 years and always felt attracted to each other. last spring after breaking up from an important relationship from which i came up really bumped out, i started chatting with her an dated for a couple of weeks when she came to town for taking a dance course. since i was just coming out from this crappy relationship i wasn't in for something serious and i told her so.

after that she went back home and started going out with some ex boyfriend. meanwhile y got a real nice fuckbuddie at university preety much right after first day back from vacation and started something which could be described as an open relationship. a month or so after this i went visit this girl and she threw herself into my arms and started dating again, even thou i'd told her i was seeing someone back into town. she said she didn't care. but eventually she fell in love and started complaining about this other girl. i wasnt still prepared to comitt myself to one girl so i kept dating both even though it made her sad becouse i couldn't made up my mind. after 2 months of this i decided y liked this one girl very much so dumped the other. but this was not enough and she demanded i took her as my official girlfriend. which didn't suited me at the time. anyways this started toring the relationship apart till a point which i asked her for some time to think and finally made up my mind to make this thing official. to which her response was " you're too late, i dont want you anymore" since then she has been really cold to me and we speak very little. i've obviously tried to be as cool as posible. even though is fking hard.