Ive been reading through the venusian arts handbook for the first time today and nearly fell of my chair when i read the section on sequencing mistakes. The last 3 number closes ive had seemed really hot for me. quickly being dirty on texts, sending dirty pics ect...... only to go cold and stop returning texts soon afterwards. All because i didnt make them work for my attraction and i didnt build any comfort. Dam inner game issues make it hard for me to remember im the valuable one!!! In a way im dissapointed as i missed out but in another way im over the moon coz i know what i was doing wrong and i can fix it!! some questions though
1. how do i encourage her to demostrate qualities that substantiate her attraction to me?
2. im struggling with what "creating comfort" entails. Is it reverting to afc tactics and sucking her ass? im cocky funny, do i have to drop this and show her a slightly more sensitive side?

cheers for you help on this one lads

any newbie that hasnt read it. READ - "the venusian arts handbook" NOW!

2. No dude, don't drop anything, comfort means what it means, don't over think it. Talking about more personal things like you would with a friend or a family member, basicly someone you know and have somewhat of a trust relationship with. Keep reading, I think there are examples in that book.

Another thing when reading guides by mystery is that you don't want to rush through the book, try to read it slowly and understand the concepts. I am reading MM right now and he just throws new material at you in the middle of the book and if you don't pay attention you will miss a lot of examples and key materials.

Good luck though! Good thing you found out what your mistakes where, I did the same. After reading the game I thought I was hot shit and was hitting on girls left and right and came off as a creep or a pervert lol. I didn't know what it was and got pissed off at Neil Straus for a little bit. But after reading MM I pinpointed my weaknesses and now it all makes sense for me.