Hi

a girl said to me: "you are maybe too kind to me", and then said that maybe that can make her not fall for me as she needs a man who can say no and be determent. So I'm wondering how to behave myself.

a bit background info:
I've been dating this girl for 2 months now. We meet a couple of times each week. It's mostly work schedule which are setting a hinder for us meeting more often... one of us is working during the night and sleep during the day....

Well I'm wondering how to behave. She was at my place this evening. We sat and saw a movie I let her decide what movie to watch (I wasn't interested in the movie, I was more interested in her). When she came to my place I let her choose what kind of coffee she wants.. I had also bought in some extra food just in case she became hungry during the evening....

Well I treated her as a guest when she was at my place. When we used to meet in the city (before we started dating at home) I always decided what we should do etc... And when I chatted her up in a night club I said to her that I prefer girls who are more sexy.... (I was not a nice boy)

On the other hand this girl has said I'm fantastic in bed (I've given her about 3 orgasms each night she sleep at my place). She has invited me home and suggested I could sleep over at her place next time I visit her

I want this girl to fall for me. This is a quality girl, tall, smart and sexy girl

Any suggestions?

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I believe you know what's wrong. Be more alpha and take charge. Women don't want a girly man. Girly men are good friends, but definetly not someone to have a long-term relationship with.

Order her around, but not to the point where it's bossy. Instead of saying, "What do you want to do?" say, "I'm starved. I've got to grab something to eat. Come join me." or "I'm going to ________. Come keep me company" or "I ________. let's _______." or "I'm going to ________. I'd like you to come." You get the idea. If you really want, let her decide a couple times if it really is necessary, but most women don't want to take charge, remember that. Remember to be cocky and funny. Don't take the cocky part too far to the point where it makes you look like a jerk. Good luck!

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