few nights ago i went out and saw this girl i saw earlier a few weeks ago.

back then i played her pretty well we had some lip action when i managed to isolate her from some cockblocks and her boyfriend who was in the club next door

but i met her together with my wingman while she was with a friend herself. my wingman kept her friend busy while i was talking to her.

anyway, i asked her for a hug at 1 point, but she refused, so i made some face expressions that i was sad for that and then she told me how big of a sweetheart she thought i was for doing that.

i told her i am really sweet but i like to beat up women too sometimes.

i still #closed her but this one made me think, how do you guys react if someone would tell you how big of a sweetheart they think you are?

I'd probably go for a makeout.

And why did you *ask for a hug*? Seriously, who does that?

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well i probably said something like give me a hug, but thats not the point, it was about the sweet heart thing

but how can hugging be a bad thing
imo fastest way to get close to a woman without them knowing whats going on

hugs are lame. basically the girl knows that u like feeling her body pressed up against u so she uses this to tease u and can have no real intention of doing anything else. friends hug. couples make out. im not really sure how to explain it right now cause its 2am and im tired but I hope u get the jist. If a girl i was out with gave me a hug at the end of the night, id rather she just shook my hand. hugs are ok in some situations but never ask for one and definitely dont make a puppy dog face when she refuses. in that situation u should punish her. maybe turn away from her or something.

ur right hugging is the easiest way to physically push ur body up against a woman but thats not going to get u much further and it wont get her attracted to u.

ps. that "I beat women" line can be effective if delivered in the right way. if u mess up the delivery, it can come off weird/offensive. it was the right situation to attempt it tho

first of all thanks for responding at such a late hour.

however, i always saw hugs as a excuse for a girl to come close to me, i always hold the girl while i am hugging her a few more seconds so she gets comfortable with my touch.

its not like, give me a hug ill see you later, more like i really like what you did, give me a hug

but hugs are bad?

Everyone's game is different. If hugs work for you, thats ok, but I can def see where new2 is coming from. If you get the "You are so cute" thing again, I'd go with something like "You're only saying that 'cause it's true" or maybe " Cute? Puppy dogs are cute... Are you calling me a puppy dog?" in a defensive manner, and if she apologizes, tell her "No...Don't try to put the shit back in the horse... You already said it now" and act offended...But let her make it up to you later. Then you can joke with her about doing it "Doggy Style" when you reach that level of comfort with her.

Hugs are great. Asking for them is lame.

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agreed

case closed =]