What's up players,

I found this site just randomly looking around on the web trying to find some good info. I'm told I'm a good looking guy but I am quite shy around females. Actually, once I get to know a girl, I can get some pretty good conversation going.

The thing is, sometimes girls get nervous around me also. I'm told I'm a good looking guy and sometimes I think the females are somewhat at a loss as to how to respond to me. I tried to game this cashier girl and she was getting really flustered and embarrassed. She messed up the transaction and wound up giving me ten more dollars than she was supposed to! I didn't realize it until later.

Sometimes these girls almost seem to get mad when I game them. They'll say something sarcastic at me or frown or something if I just try to be polite. Is anybody else dealing with some of the same issues?

B

Are you picking up 4s or 5s mate? and how old are they?...younger girls are often intimidated by any guy talking to them.


B

Maybe you are trying to be too polite. I agree with Slipfinger, they truly are. But realize this; when a supermodel walks to you and starts talking all of a sudden, you become nervous too. When girls appear intimidated, try to calm down, but don't let her get away with her bad behavior. If one girl in a set gets intimidated and starts attacking, don't swear but instead try to "look down" on her. Others in set shall see how calm and confident you are, and like you even more. Only DON'T START A FIGHT.

Try to be funny. 4xmpl, if she says "you sure are one big mumbler" you can reply "I speak normally, maybe you could wash your ears" or if she has big ears say something like "it's strange you don't understand me with ears like that." Don't get too aggressive. She may just be attracted to you, and wants to steal you away from her friend.

If she is alone, punish her bad behavior and reject yourself out.

Carpe Diem.

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Yes, these girls are a bit younger. Late teens and early twenties. Also, I'm meeting them during they day just in the course of my regular business, such as going to the department store or getting my taxes done.

For example, I was talking to the receptionist at the tax center yesterday, chatted with her for a few minutes about the wait, who was available, how much it cost, etc, and I could tell she was getting very nervous. She told me to wait up front since she would go back to see who was available. Anyway, she ran so fast, she tripped in her high heels and almost feel down on the marble tile floor!

The other girl like I said, wasn't paying attention and wound up giving me ten more dollars out of the till than she was supposed to. I guess because she was anxious.

So, I'm not quite gaming these girls, like telling them they're beautiful or asking for their phone number. But they get really nervous anyway. How do I calm them down first?

B

Yes women do get intimidated by a good looking guy. But there is more to it than that. If they are getting intimidated by you that is a good thing. It's probably also because you carry yourself in a very confident way. Looks alone don't usually make them nervous but it's also an attitude and your body language. If she is nervous you are winning. You are on top! She'll do whatever the hell you tell her to do without thinking twice about it. Call her on it and say something like "yeah I would make me nervous too". Tell her she is sexy when she gets all nervous. Amp it up! Then kill her!!!! LOL!!! You know I mean just get her number or something.

What sort of body language do you convey when you're in these interactions man? Try carrying yourself as if you were just about to leave and only have a second and see if their level of nervousness around you drops

Then again you can use their nervousness to your advantage and amp it up like silverback said