I've been in the game for a while now and getting pretty good. I have a question about leaning back when you are talking instead of leaning in and looking needy. I'm 6'5" and most girls I meet aren't that tall. Even a tall girl say 5'9" is a good 8inches shorter than me. I've found that when I'm in bars/clubs I have to lean in to be able to hear what they are saying a lot of times because the music is so loud. Either I can't hear them or they can't hear me. You guys think that even though I have to lean in to be heard that the girls think I look needy or they understand. Or what else could I do?

Leaning in is called pecking. I know what you mean. Personally in these places I don't like to play solid game - my game is totally different and involves very direct approach because you can't hold a decent conversation due to noise.

I suggest getting close. Use the noise as an EXCUSE to be close to them. If you have built attraction, and you can't hear them, motion for them to come close to you or tell you in your ear. That way they are coming to you.

Personally in normal sets I often peck until I get to the hook, then lean back. It's amazing just to watch the dynamics and body language of EVERYONE chance in that single instance, when it turns into them chasing you rather than the other way.

To prevent yourself from looking needy, I usually own them with body language. What I mean by this is, put both your arms on their shoulders, have a broad, kind and cheerful smile and twinkle in your eyes, and just seem really confident and careless. Remember, you have to believe that they will sleep with you, it's just a matter of time. You can rock out the set time to time with your body language just to show you are not always pecking.