How do i tell if my gf's friend wants me or is she just f**king with my mind?

_________________
Go big or go home

It hard to tell. This a common problem. When you're with a woman you have social proof and her friends will naturally want you more than otherwise. This is especially true if she happens to be the leader of her group of friends, because they consider her very high value and will likewise consider you high value by association.
I would watch her body language and eye contact though. If she is just screwing with you mind and isn't attracted to you, her body language will be less intense and her eye contact will be weak.

well she does have very stong eye contact whth me espacly when we hang out just the two of us, and she does seam to dress in a more revealing way then other days to.

How would i go about asking her if she wants to go farther then just being friends with out it getting back to the gf??

_________________
Go big or go home

its a test. the very instance you make a move on her its done. females are sneeky like that. good luck if you are gonna try.

_________________
"Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f

dude i cannot express to you how much you do NOT need to go through with this. i dont give a shit if she is hammered and is on top of you, (ok a little drastic) but unless your gf is ok with it DONT DO IT!!!

look man if she does want you and you score with her once, big deal. you will eventually be caught by the one you actually care about in the first place, then you will be left with neither and all of her friends will hate you.

my ex girlfriend (for about 2 weeks) and my was-real-close-friend are now together and i feel like straight shit. so imagine how your gf will feel...? besides, whats to stop her from doing the same thing with your friends?

but hey, if you must do it... find excuses to always be near her and texting her and so on... then late one night give her a ride home and let the games begin...

_________________
Who is the 5th of the Final Five?

ok so there are lots of ioi's between us, and lets say i wanted to go for it, what would be a good way to let her know im interested or a good opening?

_________________
Go big or go home

My recommendation is to be a man of your word. What are the terms of your relationship with your girlfriend? Is it an open one? Is it exclusive?

If your relationship is open or a MLTR, there shouldn't really be any problems.

If you relationship is exclusive, however...

If you want to play the field, go ahead and break up with your girlfriend telling her that you want to play the field and that you're itching for some variety. Then bang her friend as well as all the chicks you find attractive that you meet.

If you want to go further into your current relationship with your girlfriend, stop flirting with her friend.

Cheating is a cowardly bitch move.

if she wanted you wouldn't she be with you? what does she stand to gain by not being with you?

Long story short everyone has flirty friends girlfriend but is it worth the friendship to get your dick wet??

_________________
Troll the trolls
free book http://www.4shared.com/file/123140320/b ... ndows.html

Let's say that chocolate pudding tastes delicious. I mean come on. Lets say you wanted to go for it? Obviously you want to go for it, otherwise you wouldn't be asking us.

There is no good way to let her know you are interested without it getting back to your girlfriend. That's like asking whats a good way to set off a nuclear bomb on land, without killing to many people.

Come on, it's your GF and her friend. A lot of times girls will tests there friends boyfriends to see if they are willing to cheat on their girlfriend, that way she can dump your ass. You might not even get any from her and she will go back and tell your girlfriend.

If you want to get with her friend fine, but dump your girlfriend first, and than prepare to suffer major consquences from a girl who isn't a sure thing, and the miriad of relationships you are going to sever. I disagree with any attempt of this completely.

just re-read this this morning and I must have misread last night (damn snakebite).
Anyways, it doesn't matter if she does like you, you have a girlfriend and it is most likely a case of she wants what she can't have. If you acted on it you may get a ONS but it would ruin your relationship, their friendship and Im guessing once your gf dumps you you would be attainable and less attractive to her friend.

_________________
Troll the trolls
free book http://www.4shared.com/file/123140320/b ... ndows.html

for any one who was interested she turned out to be a gold digger

_________________
Go big or go home

Truth be told, she probably does want you.

Everyone wants what they can't have.

Problem is, if you actually go after her, your appeal will drop considerably.

Obviously, if you're considering this approach, then you probably don't have much investment in your GF... or maybe you do. If you don't, then break up and move along, there are tons of girls to go after.

If you do, then just ignore her, she'll always tempt you, it will be fun, exciting and will never lead to anywhere. Just pretend she's a rainbow.