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But im here for ant advice and i'd really like to know wat advice you guys have regarding the stuff in the first paragraph and what to do with this old friend
Thanks, WALLA
You want to set up traps around the house. Good products are 'Raid' and other poisons that get brought back to the colony, killing the queen. If you are outside, then my favorite method is using a large magnifying glass and frying them.
As for the stuff in your first paragraph, it doesn't seem like you need much advice. You are already improving your life as is, just keep learning and applying yourself. Be as social as possible. Stand your ground and don't shy away from bullying. Laugh any insults or jokes off about you "haha! I liked that one! I'm writing that down!." You have to train yourself to be non-reactive and un-phased by things around you. Be very comfortable and confident with yourself, increase your inner game, and act with the "I am the prize" mentality. Things will work out.
As for the friend thing, for lack of detail, just be natural. Invite her out to tag along with you to a low-commitment event (like going to the mall) and work on gaming her. Remember to kino a lot.