So ive been officially dating this girl (shes 18, me 17) for a bout 4 days now. So far weve only madeout and ive fingered her. But she hasnt done anything to me like that. Have i rewarded her w/o her having deserved it? I enjoy giving pleasure to girls, but i dont want it to become all about them like im THEIR sex servent. What can i do to make up for giving her this w/o her having earned it?

I asked her and she told me the farthest shes ever gone with a guy was a handjob but the relationship wouldve gone farther if he hadnt have broken up w/ her, should i be worried about that guy. I know im just supposed to trust in my game to prevail, but we all have those ppl we have outstanding connections with, its will be really hard to catch up to that.

Also we went to her schools homecomming and i ended up paying for her meal and her ticket, what that a mistake?

I usually dont pay for things in relationships, but her friends kept telling me stories of the guy she took last year who didnt pay for her meal or ticket and was a total jerk. But i feel like it would be a negative change in pace if i just suddenly stoped paying for her, when thats what ive started off doing.

i know its late, but i was also thinking of running to October man on her, ive never used it b4 but im a pretty convincing actor .

Hope you can help, peace out

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if its a relationship you shouldnt be gaming her to an extent. the best answer i can give you is to go into the relationship section. Try some Freeze out method and since you are dating her its ok to pay for her but also make a counter-offer like. "Hey i'll pay for this and you can pay for that" Dont let her rule over you but dont be that complete jerk. its all about balance 40/60 lol. Remember Relationship is harder then the game itsself in my opinion

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