So the other night this stripper comes up to me and shes like wow, you're cute and is feeling my all over saying i have a great body blah blah. I just think to myself that she says that to everyone. I just say you aren't so bad yourself for a little neg. I also negged her about a few other things and she responded well. We talk for a while longer, and shes like oh you must get all the ladies. You are so hot blah blah. I sarcastically say no to DHV. We talk for a while more, about her life a little, and I really enjoyed talking to her. She was very intellectual, and pretty damn hot.

So I end up getting a dance from her. Looking back I should have said no. We go back to the room, talk a little more because it seems she is really interested in me. So the dance finally begins and shes telling me to touch her down there and saying how bad she wants me in her. I've had plenty of dances before and never heard such talk so I assumed that was a good thing.

We head back to my table, talk for a little while longer. I mention how we should continue this another time, or how could we continue this. She didn't budge. So I finally just ask for her number. She says "I'll think about it" and walks away! I literally spent like 20 minutes gaming this woman, and nothing happened. I ended up leaving the club 10 minutes later. She never came back.

I also assumed she must be interested if she is wasting all this time with me when she could be making a lot more with other guys. So I am basically asking for your guys opinions and what you all would have done or what I should do in the future. And if I should go back and try again? I am a beginner at all this really so it would be much appreciated.

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Haha. Same exact thing happened to me. And I mean same EXACT thing from the way you describe it. She said all the same shit and we even talked about the same shit you described. This has got to be a routine they run to get more repeat business. That way you'll be more likely to come back to that club and get dances from her specifically.
You weren't gaming her, she was gaming you.

Yes, strippers do say stuff like that to everyone. You can not take seriously any IOI they show. You have to DHV a lot and show pre-selection (either come with a girl or tell her your ex was a stripper). You have to also show active disinterest. Never pay for a dance! If you do, she will see you as a customer and not as a potential suitor.

Give up on this one. The only way I think you will get her is if you run some jealousy plot line by successfully building attracting in another stripper, or coming with one or two other hot girls.

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Yeah that's what I figured. I think it would have helped if I didn't get a dance from her. I don't know any other solutions so that's why I am asking for help.

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you did pretty well, but a big mistake was getting the dance from her. As soon as you pay for something, you are simply a customer to her.