alright well i invited this girl to go to a soccer game, and she told me to call when i was ready, so ic alled and she didnt answer, so i called like 3 more times and got real mad and left a message, "hey were not going to the game becuase u didnt answer ur phone again, so maybe ill ttyl or maybe i wont bye" now i tried called her and IMin her and she didnt answer. should i call and say hey srry about the message? cuz other than that i have no clue why she wouldnt be talking to me becuase she told her freind that she likes me.

I'm still a noob but it sounds like a shit test to me. I'd just stop phoning her or trying to get a hold of her for a couple of weeks.

that would suck if it was, but im thinking like she liked me then i fliped out on her so early in talking to her like 1 month, on/off so maybe she said screw this u know so maybe if im like srry i was iimmature u know she might respond and if she dosnt from that then move on?

anybody??

You over-did it. You need to have the "I am the prize" mindset, and with that comes the presupposition that you are the one being chased. This girl is just along for the ride. She does not dictate your life. By calling her and messaging her that much you are showing her that you are dependent on her and are needy. You are also showing some more AFC characteristics.

Don't call her again, don't message her again. The more you do, the more you push her away. Definitely do not apologize. You had the right to be stern with her for flaking out, but your message has been delivered so let things rest. If things are going to re-initiate, she has to be the one to do it. The ball is in her court. You have to believe that it truly does not matter to you whether it happens one way or another because you are the alpha male. You are the man that has many possible suitors and she is vying for your attention.

So let it go. Maybe even start sarging other girls and parade them around on your arm so she can see.

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yeah you should of justed called once. like Plethora said you over-did it. What you could of done is went to the game any ways and left her a message like
"hey sucks that you missed the game but it was awesome i'll catch you next time around"
Now you showed her that you can have a great time without her and it doesnt leave you looking so needy but at the same time you are thinking of her.

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this shit is what is making me crazy becuase now that i already did it i cant go back and change it it makes me pissed and idk what to do. and then after i do i think what would a PUA do and i get mad becuase i ddint do it. im sick of doing the wrong things