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Hey guys starting to develop routines for approaches and what not but how long should the attraction phases be (I am referring to the m3 model). For example, how many minutes should a2 and a3 take up and how many routines should you fit into each?
Advice is appreciated, thanks!
Good Question. I'll try to break it down but basically the entire attract phase typically lasts about 10-20 minutes. I know that is vague but no two pickups are completely identical. Some people may take a little longer, you may have interruptions etc. Just figure about 15 minutes total on average.
A1 - Opening (Takes about 3-4 Minutes) Just an opener if they hook go to your DHV stories in A2. If not stack forward with another opener to get them to hook.
A2 - Female to Male attraction 7 minutes. You are going to be telling a few personality and DHV style stories in order to flip her attraction switches. Ignore the target, and look for IOIs from her. Befriend the group!
A3 - Male to Female attraction. 5 minutes. You are allowing her to tell some good things about herself, so you can show attraction to her slowly. Obviously, you will bait this behaviour by getting her to talk about herself.
Hope this helps give you a guideline. You should fit as many routines or stories as you need to make her attracted to you before you move to A3. You'll know you have it by watching for enough IOIs. Again, this is in accordance with the M3 Model. Once you have enough IOIs move from A2 to A3.
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