I have a friend who has oneitis over this guy. They went out before in the past but broke up twice and are not going out anymore. He's a peculiar guy. He has no guy friends, all his friends are girls (hb3-5, girl im friends with is a .

He has repeatedly expressed interest in other girls and have asked several other girls out yet my friend can't seem to get over him. He has very little romantic interest in her, she's pretty much a plan B..maybe even C to him. a few of her friends called her out on her "beck and call" behavior toward the guy and told her to get over him but she just says they're just really good friends.

it's not doing her any good, she gets upset when he goes out with other girls or neglects her over someone else.

aside from telling her to read pua material and go out meeting a bunch of other guys haha, is there any way to help her?

dude tell her to read this site with the prospective that she should think that girls are talking about this stuff, actually no---- tell her tips from this site but from a girls perspective this shit works both ways

Women form unhealthy fixations on men naturally. There is nothing you can do about it (a matter of fact isn’t the idea of PUA to make women form these unhealthy fixations). The most you could do is get the guy to DLV to her, to deflate her image of him. Basically the only thing that would work is anti-PUA which I guess would be afc. But he would have to do it. I don’t think you telling her about him would do anything, it has to come first hand.

Give her a shoulder to cry on, run some trust tests, bone her, and she will feel better. If that doesn't work, set her up with a friend that will. She will get over her oneitis if she sees other people.

Yeah! Girls form unhealthy relationships with the wrong guys. Sweep her off her feet if you have to. She needs to open her eyes and see that there is more to life than this one guy.

Well, I am the guy who girls go to when their hearts are broken, and trust me, girls with one-itis are very much difficult to cure.

Once her heart is smitten, you can DLV the guy until the cows come home, but her heart would still miss him. I have had girl friends, and reasonably attractive ones at that, cry on my shoulders over extremely hopeless men.

The guys had taken them for a ride, and taken them for granted, and yet they still love them, and they still cry for them. They were willing to tolerate a lot of nonsense from these guys which I knew for a fact that they won't tolerate under normal circumstances.

And the shittiest part of it all is that, the girls know they are being mistreated, and they still love the guy. Their hearts were broken by the guy, and they know he will break her heart again, but they will always melt at his hands.

Go figure.

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So again... How do we get her out of it?

Give her a good shagging! it helps

haha doesn't help at all but i appreciate the effort

I guess at some point, you just have to forget it. Live and let live, not my problem, I tried.