So I met this girl while I was out and about somewhere around 2 weeks ago. We went out to lunch for out first date or whatever. She is cool as hell. We were in the sack by like the 3rd night. I told her about a week into it that I wasnt looking for a relationship, and that if she was, maybe we should go ahead and stop what we were doing so no one got hurt. She was PISSED! Well, being that shes a cool girl, we were hangin out the next night, as friends... right? Hell no, we ended up bumping uglies that night too. After this, my thought process was basically "F*ck it, i have a good time with her, and the sex is good, lets just go with the flow."

Fast forward to the present. She is getting seriously attatched and I am not. She is sending me all these little text messages. "I miss you!" and "I think about you all day!".

First of all, I know I am a dick, but I am also a guy with hormones. Maybe I just shouldnt have hung out with her the night after I broke the news to her the first time.

I dont want to just come out and tell her I dont want to see her anymore. I honestly think this would crush her. Granted, I am an asshole at this point, but there is no reason to cause more damage and ruin a girl's self esteem if I dont have to. Ok, well the goal is, I want to decrease her attraction so she wont have such a problem being just friends or even just not talking anymore. I have a few problems though. First of all, last night we had one of the most mind blowing nights in bed that I have ever had. I think this definately upped her attatchment. The thing is, I have so much fuckin pride I cant do shit like stink on purpose, fart on purpose, be terrible in bed, etc. My initial thought was just to start being clingy as fuck, bring in the baby talk, etc. to scare her away. But I definately feel as if that might backfire.

Anyway any help would be appreciated. If you guys could get me out of this I would be very thankful. I am new to the pick-up practice. I was so focused on getting the girl and getting into bed I wasnt careful not to let this happen.

sometimes you gotta be that asshole. girls rather have you tell her str8 out then string her along any further, yes she might get devasated but the sooner the better. they'll get over it. If she doesnt then you got bigger problems on your hands. This also means no sex, i know i know its hard to fight off the erge. Just be str8 up. Stage 5 clinger !! run!

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I have a few problems though. First of all, last night we had one of the most mind blowing nights in bed that I have ever had.

If you are trying to distance yourself from this girl, why would you sleep with her? You are making things worse.

NonStopReaper has a point, you need to come out and tell her things need to slow down. You already told her once, so it shouldn't be a big surprise. She is going to be hurt regardless, just be cool about it.

Always let a girl know 'before' you sleep with her that you are not interested in a relationship. That way they can't b*tch about you 'using' them for sex.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Back out. Don't be afraid to be an asshole it comes with being a PUA