what would you guys say to this? I usually say something like "well theres one in front of you or brush it off, but thk its kinda lame.

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i would of said "well i only go for hot girls but deicded to settle with you" Did she say this to you during your opening? if so you must of missed a step or did something wrong ususally the "hot guy" line is a bitchy way of rejecting you showing you and people around her that she has a higer "Valule" i havent run into this roadblock yet. Does anyone else have any insight.

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Yea, you ran into a bitch shield. It is tricky to recover but you should try to brush it off and use a C+F remark. I wouldn't recommend saying anything like "you are looking at one" or anything like that though.

Your best bet would be to eject then come back later with a girl (or two) on your arms, and get them to point and laugh at the previous girl (cred Mystery)

I've never been told this, but I'd deal with it in the same way as her telling me she wasn't interested. You just play around with her and have fun:

"Let's go find one for you then! It'll be fun". Proceed to take her by the arm and start to walk her around. She won't go along with it, laugh and hit you on the arm. Or, if she does come with you, start pointing out guys for her and actually start introducing her to guys and leaving her with them. It's hilarious, and 9 times outta 10 she'll come find you later because being introduced to random guys by someone she thought was hitting on her is embarassing as hell. At which point you can ask her how she was getting on withn her new boyfriend and start teasing her.

Or, the good old fashioned "You gotta lower your standards once in a while, I mean come on... I did". Classic.

A woman that rejects you that hard and outright usually have a more dominate personality and if you didn't grab her attention from the get go it will be very hard indeed to change her perspective of you. You definatly lose if you walk away. You cannot comeback after that, the walk-away shows that you were weak and since she is dominate you have to be more dominate. The reply "There's one right in front of you" although shows some confidence I think it comes off more as arrogance and a little cheesy. I personally would comeback with a stronger neg. Something that isn't quite as playful as what you would normally say, but just below an insult. For example: "Well with my face and your ass it looks like both of us are going to be buying our own drinks tonight." or "I like your outfit where did you get it Layne Bryant?" Layne Brant is a store for fat chicks so it will make her a little self conscious. Then BOOM!! try again.

I'd laugh lightly and just smile like I'm thoroughly amused. Remember, LIGHTLY. You're not laughing at HER, you're laughing at the concept that you're not hot, cause you fucking KNOW you are.

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"and I only go for plastic girls, so we're perfect." she probably won't know what the fuck you're talking about at first, but it will at least be amusing to watch her try to make sense of it. the gears turn slowly. she'll pick it up eventually.

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or back in the day I'd just say. "yeah, and who are you? I buy and sell bitches like you all day"

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lol nice and funny replies thx guys, nah it has nvr happened 2 me during an opening, more like mid-way in a fun way. But I'll keep those in mind just in case =]

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you could say..i'm not the hottest guy here but I AM the ONLY guy talking to you!

All of those "funny" lines are not good things to say to a girl you're interested in. Unless you want to make her feel like shit and dehumanize her in order to make her value herself so little that she figures you're the best she can get.

If you really want to create a connection with a girl, attract her and have ANY kind of relationship that is even remotely healthy, then you need to actuall treat her like a human being. Insulting her doesn't accomplish this. You just have a to show her you don't give a shit that she is saying something that silly, because that's all it is to you. Silly. You know you're hot, you know you're a man and that she wants you to be a man, so you just be confident and show her your unwaivering self assuredness.

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I run the Attraction versus Falling in Love pattern.

pretty much any mention of looks or appearance, including complimenting me on my looks, gets the same pattern.

I have a question to ALL OF YOU with these COCKY AND FUNNY LINES:

Do you realise that when you respond with a cocky and funny line, 95% OF THE TIME YOU'RE REACTING TO HER SHIT TEST WHICH WILL THEN FUCK ALL YOUR CHANCES WITH HER.

To help you picture this better people, picture Bruce Willis walking into a nightclub. HE is a true alpha male, he could pull ANY girl we wanted to, and he has a really cool demeanour about him. If HE starts talking to some girl, and she says "sorry, I only go for HOT guys", would HE use a cocky and funny line? Would he start defending himself saying "im a fucking movie star you little bitch iso hot i could fuck any woman i want etc etc"?

NO HE WOULDN'T

He'd probably look at her and just grin, because he's pulled chicks a million times hotter than her, he has people coming up to him non-stop WORSHIPPING HIM, HE WOULD CARE SO LITTLE HE WOULDN'T EVEN SAY ANYTHING.

I read somewhere here a suggestion from someone to say "well i only go for hot girls but i settled for you". THAT IS SHOWING YOU CARE and you've failed the shit test.

This will help you how to react to these situations:

Imagine you're walking down the street, and a huge fatass weighing 500 lbs comes up to you and says "YOU'RE SO FUCKING FAT, GO TO THE GYM YOU FAT LOSER". What are you going to do? You'll probably look at him, and just keep walking...you really won't care that he said, now would you? I doubt you'd use a cocky and funny response, I doubt you'd get playful with him...you'd just keep walking and you wouldn't even react in the slightest.

THAT is the BEST and EASIEST reaction to give to "i only date hot guys" or any shit test-to not let it affect you to the point you don't even feel the need to give a response.

Usually a girl will freeze you out, stop talking to you, or walk away with her friend etc when she's not interested, rather than saying "i only go for hot guys", so assume its a shit test.

The most important thing of all however:

even if you pass this shit test, she will very likely test you trying to catch you off guard-this is where its easiest to fail. the best thing you can do is work on becoming truly confident and completely accepting yourself, because TRUST ME, your true colours will ALWAYS SHINE and she will ALWAYS be able to see that.

ok, that's my 2 cents worth, now i have to get back to work lol. i hope i helped at least 1 person out there

read somewhere here a suggestion from someone to say "well i only go for hot girls but i settled for you". THAT IS SHOWING YOU CARE and you've failed the shit test.


i said that *point at post above* i realize you have a point there.
Epic fail!

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I would use Kingy's (from the LSS) reply after he posted regarding how to respond to a girl with a question similar to that:

HB: I only go for hot guys...
PuA: Cool *continue conversation*

Bloody simple and easy, and show's you don't give a shit with her trying to belittle you....Remember, she may be testing you to see how much of a man you are
Though I admit, it is cruel.

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