So I posted this on another thread, but I've decided to paste into a new one and hope somebody answers. I've even decided to apply a little grammar to this post so I look halfway educated and teachable. I'm probably going to post this in about 15 more spots so if you've read it more than once and are pissed about it I apologize. Actually, I don't, if you've read it more than once you should be doing something more productive then listening to my pathetic rambling. I just hope somebody worth meeting reads this and decides that they need to hijack my brain for awhile. I'm all for a little vacation. I'm bored out of my fucking mind with life. So here was my post... it probably won't make any sense without the context of what had already been written. But the main points are intact...

fuck viagra. that's why i came here. i'm bored of the same old stuff. just for the record, and in response to one of your responses, I'm not good at what I do. I'm not a pua. I know nothing about it. I'm a natural. I can pickup girls w/ bullshit fratty moves but anyone can do that. I'm just bored with that. I want to get into the nlp and hypnosis stuff and just expand on the theories on human interaction. It was this girl who made me realize that I just dont care about the numbers game anymore. fuck sleeping w/ girls, that's easy. I don't want to sleep with 10's, I want to know why mystery, and ross jeffries and david deangelo have a million chumps just waiting to bow to them. I want to know what style has that made all these gurus stop what they were doing and teach him. Fuck girls, man. that's old news. I just want somebody to answer this post and start my mind on a journey into places I never knew existed. Don't take me to a bar, take me to a new dimension, a new state of being. I hope somebody who hears what I'm saying reads this.

David Deangelo, Mystery, and Ross Jeffries are all pioneers. They brought change and hope to the lives of millions of students who are looking to enrich their love lives.
Style had a knack for learning. He took it upon himself to put his ego aside and genuinely work his ass off to reach to top. He also had preselection, as Mystery took him under his wing to begin with.

As for NLP, I have just started over the past month to really immerse myself in this world. I've downloaded many eBooks, audio files, and pretty much everything Derren Brown has done. I am so fucking fascinated, I find myself lost down the rabbit hole completely. Everything you learn about NLP just wants you to learn more, makes you fall deeper and deeper. When you try to resist and fight, you find yourself more and more stuck.

With every inch of my body I want to master the techniques of NLP and hypnosis. I want to master the ability to create instant rapport, to subliminally change someone's mind, to create any emotional state inside a person that I feel like (including arousal), to manipulate the world around me perfectly until it looks like I want it to.

I am not a Guru. I can not take you to another dimension. But I can see that dimension, just over the horizon, and I want to get there as badly as you do. Take the initiative yourself. Acquire as much material as you can, and find your own way down the rabbit hole.
(PM me for specifics)

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Where do you live man? Geography plays a big part in who you have access to as far as coaches. I spent a long time improving all by myself and working hard at becoming good, but it wasn't until I moved to Toronto and met up with some of the best guys in the community (Sean Messenger, Johnny Soporno, Tung and various people that they know) - guys that don't even consider themselves PUAs and don't WANT to be PUAs - that I made the MASSIVE leaps I've recently had. Now that I'm in a place where incredibly guys like them are located, or visit on a regular basis, I have become good friends with them and I'm getting the kind of mentorship you are looking for.

Be warned though, living in a city where these guys are is not enough. Just expressing to them your desire to improve isn't either. These guys are constantly barraged with requests to be taught, so you have to demonstrate that hunger and passion that most people lack. Just wanting to learn from them isn't enough, you need to be able to become friends with them and have them view you as an equal, or at least capable of becoming an equal; having the potential for greatness.

Without those things, you are no more than just a regular client to them and you will be treated as such (which isn't to say that they won't treat you amazingly, because the guys I've mentioned are some of the most amazing and kind hearted people I've had the pleasure of knowing). In order to get what you are looking for, it can't be just about you, it has to be about giving back to the world as well and you need to hold similar values. You need to stand out from the thousands of other men that are craving their help.

I hope you find what you're looking for though man and if you have those sorts of desires and good intentions behind them, then I'd be more than happy to introduce you to the right people, as well as help coach you to the next level myself.

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ya i hear you. and i think you hear me. I see what lies beyond all this madness but cant get there on my own. im in illinois just outside of chicago. i know i have 'it.' but nobody wants to just come out and say that ya know. i could be a total bust but at least then i'll know. i just want to find something bigger. everybody is disconnected these days and within all the b.s. and techniques and theories lies the one answer that everyone is looking for, that we're all connected in some way. i just feel like maybe this'll get me closer to finding that connection. chicago is along way from toronto but i'm willing to take a trip.