I went to class with this girl and this big AMOG came up to her. She introduced me and the guy says (loudly) hows it goin and we do the handslap/fist bump. I fucked up and said (in a soft voice) its alright, how are you? He didnt respond to that. Instead the girl laughed and he started gaming he and class started. I didnt even say another word to her that day. It was early and I was tired & pissed off because of what happened. Maybe I just need to get more sleep ! How would a pua handle this situation.

First thing you must learn is to master your inner game. There are books on this and I'm sure some of our friends could name a few, and please do(I have not read any yet). From what I've heard "How to Become an Alfa Male" is a must read for improving inner game and it is as good a book and perhaps better in some aspects than "The Game" (the book). I've read reviews on amazon about HTBAAM, but have not purchased it yet, b/c I already have literally a box full of PUA books still to read.

In any situation where you might find yourself defeated internally you must show confidence and appear untouched by it (if you can separate your emotions from your appearance, then, you master this PUA business, the rest is techniques and lines). All great debators show this trait and it is crutial to apply when facing rejection or defeat - just stay cool! it's easy, life goes on! what ever! Fuck it!

It's okay the way you handled it, I've been in similar situations a lot and still find myself in that situation occasionally. You must know my friend, that you won't remember this day down the road and even if you do, you will look back at it and laugh. Let it go, it's nothing! NOTHING! Try to look at your current failure from a bird's eye view (where what you see is your entire life) and picture more opportunities you will face; imagine yourself succeding in them. Disect your experience with this AMOG and picture yourself as a if you are confident in this situation and how you would handle it then.

You are THE MAN! Nobody can stop you!

Good luck!

thanks but how would you handle this specific situation?

I definitly agree with arnolds post. I would like to add two mindsets you should definitly apply, they arent actually from a PUA, there from a teacher of mine in my college course, the thoughts are to get your creativity going and not fear failure.

First: The Universe is a huge fucking place, and in the grand scheme of things, do you really think anything you do is all that important?

Second: He is just another human being just like you, trying to make his way in the world.

If I were you in that situation i would have done something like this. shake his hand and when he would do that hand slap I would turn to the girl and say something like "oh that reminds me, this old lady came up to me today, blabla etc etc" and leaving him standing there with his hands out.

Don't let someone interrupt you so easily.

Hope this helps

So basically ignore the guy?

you shoulda given him the hand-connection then said loudly 'yea hows it goin man' then turn to the girl and pull her attention and start walking so she follows away or at least faces away.

cheers and gl.

hahaha this post was awesome


but heres a way i would have done it .... once yall was doing the shaking the hand thing and all that i would have flexed my muscles and made a joke of him by saying oooo HEY ME BIG HE MAN(and while saying this flex ur muscles like ur in a muscle man show , and do it with outrageous poses and faces) and be loud as him, basically mimic his gestures and make him look AMOG'D show him whos boss

theres so much u could have done dude hahaha...

o another thing i would have been like o u must train with tae bo the way u do all these hand gestures hahahaha man with these type of guys just make fun of wha they do but inconspicuously

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