Ok so I was working on this one girl. Number closed, kiss closed, fingered her a little... but i got tossed into her LJBF zone (but not really because we still made out on the occasional times i saw her) because she is still "in love" with her first who has been gone for like a year now (he dumped her). She really thinks that this guy is going to come back but he isn't even interested in her. She can't even stick to the "LJBF" thing with me if I ever see her in person, but it never goes past kissing. So I basically stopped showing any interest even though she still likes me.

I'll admit I was a complete AFC through most of it, but what do you guys think of this? Shes got this hardcore Christian belief that her first was "the one". Is this a lost cause?

So I need help with one of two things. I either need help getting with her or getting her away from me. She is like the ultimate waste of time right now.

Don't ever mention him ever again, and if she does then just cut the thread and start another topic. If she really can't get over him then ditch her and go sarging for other girls. Also, if she sees you getting action, she will get jealous and probably like you more.

If she is already occasionally kissing you then I guarantee that if she shes you getting your grove on with another girl then she will come running to you....

Make sure she sees you with a lot of other girls or ideally she will see you making out with a girl at some point...