What's up!

I'm new here and coming here for a bit different reason.

I'm 32 in a band (which in itself, you are correct: is a dhv)
But my gaming days are long gone and I've been in a happy relationship for quite awhile. (waits for boos). Honestly, pretty darn blissfully happy.

However I'm going into new areas playing new bars with a new lineup and have to build a new base of happy single bargoers. I've noticed what was once a base of 400+ crowds with hot 9.5s has turned into a 70% male audience and a bunch of less than 7s lined up front like linebackers.

I've found since discovering some of the culture of the PUA...that some things have happened to me/us.

Because I'm no longer shopping...I retreat socially when in the bar. I surrender high value(unconsciously) I give into AMOGs and I have been slow to approach new friends even though they might be thrilled to meet a band member.
I don't really see the repeat groups of 8.5s and higher chasing the band from town to town because they dont really find the members gaming them.

My goal is to get those 8.5s and higher back out and to the front of the stage so that our gig is a place that men will also want to visit to get laid.
We wanna qaudruple the crowd and therefore expanding our measly pay.

I know some of you PUAs might kill to be in this spot but I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on...

What might bring these HBs back into the fold and keep them coming back to see us...even if were not PUA's per se.

Ways to reemerge as someone engaged socially and DHV without it being too contrived and having people go " what got into him?"

How our goals might differ (going after the girls repeated patronage rather than her affections) but how some of the PUAs methods could be applied to produce better results?

Thanks in advance guys!

Great forum.