I am looking for a bit of advise from as many people as I can. sorry its so long

I have been around the game for about a year and I have been taking things slow mostly working on my inner game. I have found that my game is great when I just dont care so I am trying to get myself into that mood easier. I met this girl hb7 about 2 weeks ago on one of those i dont care nights, I just got done working a wedding ( I bartending) so I was dressed up and I headed over to the other side of the building to meet some friends. I was out dancing and have a grand time with my friends and I noticed hb7 and her mom hanging out I didn't think much of it and ended up running into them at the bar about 20 min later. hb7 was talking to her mom about what drink to get and I couldn't help my self so I cut in and told her about some drink that I had be serving in the back that everyone liked. I chatted with hb7 and her mom for about 5 min and my friends came over and said they were bouncing, I had just got my drink and was like WTF I'll just stay and play with hb7. I number closed her that night and set up a day one 2 days later we went out and had a blast lots of ioi's and even an invite inside her place ( she lives with her mom and dad) I set up a day 2 where we were going to meet up with some friends of mine for drinks but before we left she told me she just wanted to go as friends because of her going situation with her ex and her not having time for a relationship because of 2 jobs and college. I explained it was as friends and to relax so we go out on day 2 more iois kino and I droped her off at like 4 in the morning. So far i'm thinking all this stuff i'm learning is paying off. I set up a day 3 for the following night I had to bartend so i had her meet me at work and I flirted with her and fed her drinks till I was done. We decieded on midnight bowling because of the time. This time there was more of just friends talk but with flirting involved so I took it as I want you but you but I want to make it a challenge. Things are going great laughing iois hell I even got a lapdance at the bowling alley though she said not to take it the wrong way. I droped her off once again like 4 ish we decided to ride around listen to music and b.s. The next day I call knowing she was driving to school and I get her voice mail. I left a message and 5 min later I get a txt asking what I wanted and I was like just to talk. She said oh i'm busy I'll talk to you later. 2 days pass and I txted her and got a one work reply. Then I pulled a wuss move and asked her if things were ok with us and she said yeah i'm just really busy in my life right now and I don't want a what you want.

now my question did give her buyers remorse? I do want to hangout with her even if it is as friends becuase I am sure it will turn into something when her life settles down. but how do I go about telling her I just want to be friends without coming off as a wuss...? or how do I get her to want to hang out again. When I bring up the idea to catch a drink after work she shoots me down but in a nice way something like " I'm sorry I cant I close tonight and I work all day tomorrow." I have tryed to move on but there is something about her that makes me want to have her in my life. any ideas that can help me? I think I can save this but I'm not sure how.

freeze her out for a week let her come to you