| Hello there.
I lived in Barcelona, Spain, for an year, then I moved back to Italy.
I'm going back down there for a week at the end of september to see some friends and celebrate my bday.
And when I say "friends", I mean "former SPAM". Hot ones.
Objective: slip out of the friend zone and into their bed
Material:
7 days, with a major city holiday (that also happens to be my bday) and a weekend halfway through.
3 & a half girls. More on them later.
Half a wingman (he's cool, but he doesn't speak spanish and the girls don't speak italian; no competition from him whatsoever, has a girlfriend)
The girls:
1) I'd say an HB7/8 to the general public, but I absolutely love her looks so HB9 in my mind. Gipsy-like, crazy type. She's been in our flat for just 2-3 months, but I guess she's the one I kept in touch better afterwards; hosted me in february, will host me this time as well. Single, age 20 (me, I'm 23)
2) HB8/9. Hot. As hell. But it would be kinda like hitting on my sister, she saw me in glorious moments and crying like a baby, shared every possible feeling. Often I feel like if I made some different choices I'd have ended up with her. Last time I was in BCN (february) I slept two nights with her, but I didn't even feel like tryin. Anyway, time passed... so I might feel different this time. Not sure if she broke up recently or if she's still in a relationship, but I don't think it's that serious, as she welcomed me in her bed while being with this guy (an older dickhead btw, he deserves to get dumped). Age 22.
3) HB? Used to be a 7, fell to 6, judging from the latest photos might very well be 7 again. Might be there, might not. Just reentered a relationship with an exboyfriend, but it's more like a summer thing. She used to hit on me for a while while I was fucked up after the big mess that happened with #4, I basically ignored her at the time. Age 20.
4) This is tricky. HB7/8, the so-called "love of my life". We went along extremely well, I fell for her, everybody thought she was into me too, then she had to move out, happened to be around Valentine's day, so I left her roses around the house. She didn't speak for the next 7 days, then moved out. I felt like a corpse. Saw her twice afterwards, once I badly wanted to see her so I waited outside her university, the last time I accidentally bumped on her in my university. She was all like "blablabla let's get a drink before you leave", I was all like "blablabla you said that 4 months ago and then disappeared, bitch", we said our goodbyes, she wanted to kiss me on the cheek, I walked away refusing it. Never heard of her anymore, obviously. She doesn't know I'm going back, so before even thinking HOW to get her (yes, call it vengeance), I have to get her to know I'm around without waking up ghosts of the past.
So,
A) do you think it's possible to get at least one of the girls out of the friend zone after all this time?
B) any idea for a general conduct? i.e. would you try multiple approaches at once ot just focus on one (which one?)?
C) any idea for how to "use" the wingman and the "night out events" (bday, w.e.)
D) specific suggestions on how to take each girl
E) whatever else
F) BLABLABLA
Thanks sweethearts, sorry for being logorrheic.
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