Ok I made a post on here a few days ago about a girl. View it here if you like:

Basically this HB10 saw me one day at college she gave me quite alot of IOI's (from staring, somehow found my myspace page and asked me for my MSN address, initiated a convo about love at first sight etc). All of this and I had never even talked face to face with the girl. Anyway theres only one day I see her per week because she only comes to my college on Mondays. I planned to talk to her last week on the bus though she didnt come. I waited another week, talking to her every now and again on MSN (didnt want to come off needy but wanted to keep her interested). But again she didn't come to college. I then got impatient because I just wanted to talk to her face to face but it wasnt happening.

Lastnight I started talking to her on MSN joking around with her and whatnot then I sent her a song I wrote, a love song. This was to DHV, show her my talent of song writing. This is how the convo went.

Me: let me know what u think...
Her: wow its so good, i love the lyrics theres so much emotion in it....
Me: thanks
Her: whos it about?
Me: does it matter?
Her: i wish a guy would write a song like that for me
Me: maybe they have [trying to keep her guessing]
Her: who would, i mean its me your talkin about [she is an HB10 but she has some problems seeing that]
Me: well it is about you [OMG what was i thinking AFC AFC AFC!!!]

We had a huge deep conversation for hours talking about life and our problems. She even cried at one point as i was discussing how I felt about her. I even felt so stupid AFC'ing her I basically told her that I just friend zoned myself with her. She replied with "i never said i didnt have feelings for you, im just going through so much and i dont know who to trust".

Anyway I haven't talked to her since last night, she gave me her number and said to call whenever.

I'd just like to know from others if I have officially fucked it up or not? Should I just cut off all contact with her and maybe try again in a few months? Should I invite her out to a party this weekend, try my luck and show her a good time.

Any replies are appreciated. I live in a small town so its not very easy to go sarging for more HB's to get my mind off her. Girls like this are very hard to find around here so I do want to keep trying with her.

See, the beauty of this situation is that no game is really required. Game is only meant for attracting her towards you, but since you've already qualified yourself without doing anything then you're good to go. Just roll with it, make sure you plan a hangout as soon as possible, AND BE SURE TO K-CLOSE OR YOU'LL DEFINITELY END UP IN LJBF ZONE.

Some times a little AFC comes out and we don't realise it and we keep going until we do get put in LJBS.So you told her it was about you.She continued to talk to you giving you her thoughts and she obviously likes you or she wouldn't have let you into her problems.Like Chenkins said you have already qualified yourself,so make the best of it use your skills and just show her a good time.As Chenkins also said Kclose her or you will be LJBF.A perfect way to do get the Kclose is to play 5 lies and bet her a Kiss,trust me the game works wonders...Good Luck to you man...

Great idea, I never thought of using a kiss for the 5 question game. Will definitly give it a shot. Thanks for the help guys!

Also, remember, if there aren't very many women to choose from, chances are there aren't many men to choose from either, so you have an advantage over those of us in big cities where competing with AMOGs is an olympic event.