So I live in SF and have been really satisfied with some of the material I have read conversing with females.

There is a particular one that I spoke with, whom I am in a inner-collegiate club with, that I got lots of IOIs from. I really wanted to # close her this evening but the opportunity seemed to be waylayed by other people and I didnt want to come off as trying 'too hard'.

I asked her what she was doing this weekend and she responded by telling me she had work, which is at the library.

I think I may approach her while she is working and attempt at making some plans with her for evening, or later on in the weekend.

some of my ideas were to--

drop in on her at work and to converse with her until # close.
Or,
quickly leave her a note if she is busy that cleverly asks her to dinner.


I am looking for advice on my ideas...

Should I wait until i run into her again away from work and # close (which could easily happen due to the small campus). Or should I just go for the gold and make a dinner date.

I need advice on approaching this problem, assessing it, getting the dinner date set w/o coming off as too strong. and if I do come off too strong how to repair the bridge.

please help me bros, I think i was thorough and detailed enough to get some good advice.

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Jack

My suggestion would be to keep sarging random chicks until you see this HB again. Focusing too much on one chick may warp the evolution of your game by over analyzing the stretched out pick up of this girl but that's simply my personal opinion and nothing more.
So, to get this dame out to dinner, my first suggestion would be to not ask her out to dinner. In fact don't ask her anything. TELL HER that she's cool and you want to see her again, that you're going to do some things around town (grocery shopping/pick up dry cleaners/whatever) and she can tag along. This will get you away from the date mentality and all the awkwardness that comes with it.
Also I'd stay away from notes. Even when I was an AFC back in high school, I would rarely accept dates from chicks who passed notes. It showed a social disability of confrontation and was a big turn off. I'd assume any girl would feel the same way. Confident guys ask girls out with a smile and lots of eye contact, not with a pen and a retreat from confrontation.
Good luck getting the girl!