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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 12:57 am 
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ill keep it simple, I'm doing an online study right now and so im message girls of course and sometimes they dont respond...

so i follow up with a ....You must be shy?

they almost always respond with an

O..and whys that?


so any bright ideas on what to say im thinking of possibly a c&f approach or a neg here but im drawing a blank....

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 4:23 am 
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Whenever I don't get a response from a message I sent, I usually follow up with something like "A little early to play hard to get isn't it?" For the "Oh.. and whys that?" The obvious answer would be "Because you didn't fucking respond!" But you could tease them by apologizing and saying something like "My bad, you aren't shy.. you're just a little slower then average."


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The obvious answer would be "Because you didn't fucking respond!" But you could tease them by apologizing and saying something like "My bad, you aren't shy.. you're just a little slower then average."
I actually disagree. While stuff like that works perfectly for you face-to-face, you can't read tonality and shit like that on the internet. It's not going to come off as a neg, it's going to come off as offensive.

What I would do is just start getting her to qualify herself to you by asking questions. "Well, do you like parties? How crazy can you get?"

Can't say for sure, though. You never really know how someone's going to interpret the tone of your writing. Get out of the house and talk to girls in real life.


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The obvious answer would be "Because you didn't fucking respond!" But you could tease them by apologizing and saying something like "My bad, you aren't shy.. you're just a little slower then average."
I actually disagree. While stuff like that works perfectly for you face-to-face, you can't read tonality and shit like that on the internet. It's not going to come off as a neg, it's going to come off as offensive.

What I would do is just start getting her to qualify herself to you by asking questions. "Well, do you like parties? How crazy can you get?"

Can't say for sure, though. You never really know how someone's going to interpret the tone of your writing. Get out of the house and talk to girls in real life.
Savior I think you would probably do well with PW's neg, if you follow it up with a smiley wink and a qualifying question like Chief suggested. It's true that it is difficult to read the tone behind typing, with smileys and a quick question in the next sentence she will know that you are just being playful.

It really depends what stage you are in with this girl though. I think you might want to move into an opinion opener and an anchoring story if this is your first encounter with her.

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thanks for the advice the you my bad your not shy your just slower then average might work on occasion....but anyways i was askign a specific question and it seemed people are giving advice around the subject like what to talk bout...so let me repeat myself

I am wondering how to respond to a comment when i say

you must be shy?

they respond......Why do you say that?


so what would be a line after to use to come off as c and f or a neg....
i know there out there i just cant think of any.....

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Just say something c & f man. A good one might be "Oh well it took you (x amount of time) to respond to my message. Don't worry though I won't tell anyone how shy you are. Your secret is safe with me :wink: " Or something like that that is congruent with who you are.

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